It Wasn’t Supposed to Look Like This: On Perfectionism, Disappointment, and Letting God In Episode 63

In this tender and truth-filled episode, Maria and Meghan pull back the curtain on one of the most damaging lies they’ve seen women carry: the belief that you're still single because you're not “doing it right” spiritually. Maybe you’ve heard it—or felt it too: if you just prayed harder, were holier, or checked the right boxes off, God would have answered your desire for marriage by now.Together, they name this lie for what it is: not from the heart of God.This conversation gently but boldly calls out the pressure many women feel to be perfect—before God, in dating, and in life. It’s an invitation into something deeper and freer: imperfection, honesty, and radical surrender to the Lord as you are right now.Through stories, scripture, and deep personal reflection, Meghan and Maria walk with you through:The shame of “not doing it right” in your spiritual lifeThe difference between surrender and giving upThe grief of unmet desires—and what to do with itWhy honesty is often the doorway to deeper intimacy with GodPractical ways to notice where you feel unsafe with the FatherHow to crack the door of your heart—just a little—for grace to enterWhether you’re in a season of disappointment, wrestling with your story, or simply needing a reminder that you’re not alone—this episode is for you.📝 Invitation: If this conversation spoke to you, would you take a moment to leave a review? Your words help this podcast reach more women in their “space between.” We're so grateful to you for helping other women find this special space💕💛 As always, we’re honored to walk with you.Doors to TIS may be closed for now, but we’ll be back! Add your name here and you’ll be the first to know when the next round opens.🌿 Get on the waitlist!🌸🌸🌸Try our FAV cycle syncing app from FloLiving! Their incredible app helps you track not just your period, but log your daily symptoms, along with recipes and workouts based on the phase of your cycle. (we literally use it every day) Wanna try cycle syncing for a month? Use code TIS for that first month of FREE! (It can be used for annual, quarterly, or monthly membership options.)Try cycle syncing for free today! https://floliving.com/product/the-cycle-syncing-membership ✨✨✨💛 Stay connected to TIS 👉🏼 Stay in the know on all things TIS!Want to go deeper? Our 3 most-loved workshops are always available—practical, healing, and Christ-centered.👉🏼 [Explore the workshops]If you’ve been feeling stuck in your head or in “go mode” in life or in dating, we made something for you 🤍✨ Turning Back Into a Girl — a free guide to help you slow down, feel more grounded, and show up with more presence.👉 Get the guide🌸 Cycle Syncing with Flo LivingTrack your cycle + support your body’s rhythms with recipes, workouts, and insights.Use code TIS for your first month FREE.🌿 Wednesday Wellness & Wisdom (Free Newsletter)Faith + nervous system support + life-giving resources—delivered every other week.👉 Subscribe🌐 Learn more about The Intentional Single📩 [email protected]