EPISODE · Jun 30, 2025 · 8 MIN
It Wasn’t Them, It Was the Pattern
from The Paradigm Shifts Podcast Network · host Kaila New York
In this walk, I get real about something I had to come to terms with: it wasn’t just that I was in a relationship with a narcissist—it was that I kept repeating a narcissistic pattern. I share how my spirit team helped me zoom out and see the bigger lesson: we don’t have free will, but we do have free choice. You’ll hear how I finally broke that cycle, reclaimed my power, and stopped letting people earn access to me just because I’m a good person. This one’s for all my empaths, healers, and over-givers—it’s time to shut the pattern down for good.
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In this walk, I get real about something I had to come to terms with: it wasn’t just that I was in a relationship with a narcissist—it was that I kept repeating a narcissistic pattern. I share how my spirit team helped me zoom out and see the bigger lesson: we don’t have free will, but we do have free choice. You’ll hear how I finally broke that cycle, reclaimed my power, and stopped letting people earn access to me just because I’m a good person. This one’s for all my empaths, healers, and over-givers—it’s time to shut the pattern down for good.
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