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EPISODE · Jul 12, 2026 · 34 MIN

it's complicated: the truth about exes, situationships + why "too much" is a lie w philippa found

from the self-love archives · host Julia Salvia

click here to tell us how this landed for you ❤️ this week i'm sitting down with Philippa Found, author of It's Complicated: Collected Confessions of Messy Modern Love - a collection of 250 anonymous stories pulled from over 1,500 submissions. we get into why so many of us secretly still think about an ex, the "too much" lie we've been sold, the shame that comes with being single, and whether AI belongs anywhere near our love lives.a quick note before you watch- my video quality on this one was rough. my audio is a little lagged and doesn't quite match up, but Philippa's side is totally fine, so bear with me! this episode is best listened to as to not experience any of those disruptions <3📖 grab It's Complicated: Collected Confessions of Messy Modern Love here 🤫 submit your own anonymous story to Philippa's site herefollow Philippa on social here: @philippa_found @itscomplicatedstoriesconnect with julia on instagram @beautybyjulia + tik tok @juliasalviaunlock more archive content on instagram @theselflovearchive + tik tok @theselflovearchivessign up for the self-love archives newsletter: www.theselflovearchives.com

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click here to tell us how this landed for you ❤️ this week i'm sitting down with Philippa Found, author of It's Complicated: Collected Confessions of Messy Modern Love - a collection of 250 anonymous stories pulled from over 1,500 submissions. we get into why so many of us secretly still think about an ex, the "too much" lie we've been sold, the shame that comes with being single, and whether AI belongs anywhere near our love lives. a quick note before you watch- my video quality on this one...

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