It's Not Me, It's You (and other things we're tempted to say)

Hey everyone, Amber here! Ever hear 'It's not you, it's me' and just cringe? Let's flip the script with some real talk on taking responsibility for our own stuff instead of pointing fingers at everyone else. From my own messy journey to Jesus' teachings, we’re diving deep into why it's so hard to say 'It's not you, it's me' and actually mean it. Ready to get real? Let’s break the blame game cycle together. And yep, there's some prayer at the end because we all need it. Follow for more raw and random devo thoughts!00:00 Introduction: It's Not Me, It's You00:47 The Blame Game: A Universal Habit01:25 Biblical Examples of Blame02:21 Self-Reflection and Personal Responsibility02:51 Jesus' Teachings on Blame and Sin03:16 Personal Struggles with Blame07:32 The Call for Confession and Ownership08:36 Jesus' Ultimate Sacrifice09:19 Practical Steps for Self-Examination11:14 Conclusion and PrayerAmber Weigand-Buckley is an Amazon #1 bestselling and multi-award-winning author, podcaster, and the founding editor and art director of the multi-award-winning Leading Hearts magazine. She's the #shortyellowpencilgirl living in a neurotypical world — navigating life with a beehive brain, a lot of sticky notes, and an unwavering belief that God wired her exactly right.Host of #RandomDevoThoughts — where she unpacks the Jesus heart from the ADHD mind — Amber brings raw, relatable, and often hilarious insight to faith, mental health, and neurodivergent life. She's also co-host of Coffee Chat with Amber & Lisa.Her newly released book, #SisterhoodoftheShortYellowPencils: Mental Health Mayhem, One Sticky Note at a Time, is out now — a humor-packed, gut-punch honest look at her own mental health journey that's equal parts laugh-out-loud and life-changing.Follow her @barefacedgirl and @shortyellowpencilRX for the real, the raw, and the ridiculous.