I’ve Given Him Sex #795

She's been married a long time. She's done the work — therapy, 12-step, forgiveness. The guilt and shame are gone. And she's been giving her husband sex twice a week for years. He knows that's all it's ever been. Her question: how do I get past the guarded sex, the pressure, the fear of never being enough? How do I finally be free? It's a good question. But it's not the first question worth asking. Because somewhere along the way sex became something she gives on a schedule she can't trace back to a decision she ever made. Not something they share. Not something that belongs to her. A transfer. A tithe. And he's been accepting it the whole time — while telling her he wants her to be free. Corey and Pam sit with both sides of this one. What it would actually take for her to find out what sex means to her. And what it means that he's spent years gobbling up what he says he doesn't want. "We spend all our energy fighting about what's missing. The real problem is what's actually present." The post I’ve Given Him Sex #795 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.