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EPISODE · Dec 17, 2025 · 1H 1M

Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson on Reciprocity and Sex

from Radical Sacred · host Jenny Misslin and Phillip Dieke

Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson join us today to talk about reciprocity in intimate relationships in this helpful and hopeful episode! Julia and Jeremiah are married therapists whose mission is to support relationships in reclaiming sexuality following adverse religious experiences. Their gentle approach invites us all into new ways of being and knowing, ourselves and others. We loved their kind and thoughtful approach to sex, intimacy, and learning how to listen to our bodies and our yearning. Come As You Are by Emily NagoskiCome Together by Emily NagoskiSexvangelicals PodcastWhen Religion Hurts You by Laura AndersonRelationship Coaching Business - Let’s Heal TogetherGreen Boy by Kai Cheng ThomChapters00:00 Introduction to Poetry and Themes of Connection01:03 Exploring the Wild Goose Festival and Its Impact02:43 Navigating High Control Environments and Personal Growth05:40 Defining Reciprocity in Relationships08:08 Understanding Differentiation and Interdependence11:09 The Role of Purity Culture in Sexuality13:53 The Political Nature of Sexuality and Relationships16:15 Deconstructing Shame and Reclaiming Autonomy19:05 Steps Towards Healing from Purity Culture21:42 Intuition, Yearning, and Self-Discovery24:31 The Importance of Play in Sexuality27:16 Imagination and Reconstruction of Beliefs30:24 Experimentation in Relationships and Sexuality31:25 The Impact of Nature on Intimacy and Connection34:02 Intimacy as a Pathway to Connection36:49 Practical Steps to Cultivate Intimacy39:10 Recommended Resources for Vulnerability and Reciprocity42:10 Closing Thoughts and Future Directions

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Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson join us today to talk about reciprocity in intimate relationships in this helpful and hopeful episode! Julia and Jeremiah are married therapists whose mission is to support relationships in reclaiming sexuality following adverse religious experiences. Their gentle approach invites us all into new ways of being and knowing, ourselves and others. We loved their kind and thoughtful approach to sex, intimacy, and learning how to listen to our bodies and our yearning. Come As You Are by Emily NagoskiCome Together by Emily NagoskiSexvangelicals PodcastWhen Religion Hurts You by Laura AndersonRelationship Coaching Business - Let’s Heal TogetherGreen Boy by Kai Cheng ThomChapters00:00 Introduction to Poetry and Themes of Connection01:03 Exploring the Wild Goose Festival and Its Impact02:43 Navigating High Control Environments and Personal Growth05:40 Defining Reciprocity in Relationships08:08 Understanding Differentiation and Interdependence11:09 The Role of Purity Culture in Sexuality13:53 The Political Nature of Sexuality and Relationships16:15 Deconstructing Shame and Reclaiming Autonomy19:05 Steps Towards Healing from Purity Culture21:42 Intuition, Yearning, and Self-Discovery24:31 The Importance of Play in Sexuality27:16 Imagination and Reconstruction of Beliefs30:24 Experimentation in Relationships and Sexuality31:25 The Impact of Nature on Intimacy and Connection34:02 Intimacy as a Pathway to Connection36:49 Practical Steps to Cultivate Intimacy39:10 Recommended Resources for Vulnerability and Reciprocity42:10 Closing Thoughts and Future Directions

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