K2C 3 - Leaving Mormonism: The Myth That Ex-Mormons Just Want to Sin

One of the most common assumptions within the LDS community is that people who leave the Mormon Church simply want to abandon moral standards and pursue a life of indulgence. Many faithful Latter-day Saints believe former members leave the Church so they can drink alcohol, smoke, break the Word of Wisdom, or live without boundaries. But is that really why people leave Mormonism? In this episode of From Kolob to Calvary, Tracy Tennant addresses this widespread misconception and explains why the decision to leave the LDS Church is rarely about rebellion or hedonism. Tracy also discusses how some former Mormons unintentionally reinforce this stereotype by openly flaunting behaviors that were once forbidden—such as drinking coffee, alcohol, or embracing new lifestyles—in ways that can be deeply unsettling to believing Mormon family members. In this episode, you'll hear: • Why many Mormons assume people leave the Church to pursue sin • The emotional and cultural shock LDS family members may experience when someone leaves • How flaunting newly adopted behaviors can damage relationships • Why wisdom and sensitivity matter when navigating life after Mormonism • Encouragement for former Mormons seeking to walk in truth without unnecessary offense Leaving Mormonism often involves rebuilding relationships and learning how to navigate new freedoms wisely. This episode offers thoughtful insight for those transitioning out of the LDS Church while maintaining respect and compassion for the people they love. For more resources helping people transition from Mormonism to biblical Christianity, visit TheMormonMatrix.com. NOTE: This episode was recorded during the early days of the podcast (2015) when everything was a little more "live and unscripted." Thanks for extending grace as the microphone and I were still getting acquainted.