EPISODE · Jan 30, 2026 · 1H 2M
Lessons for the Lost American Male with Vince Benevento
from How To Relate · host Brittani Procknow
Vince Benevento, LPC, is a licensed counselor in both NY and CT, a husband, father, speaker, entrepreneur, and author of Boys Will Be Men: 8 Lessons for the Lost American Male. He holds a BA from Wesleyan University and a Masters’s in School Counseling from Fairfield University. Vince possesses nearly 20 years of experience working specifically with men and young men as a coach, mentor, and therapist. The organization Vince founded and has directed for the last 15 years, Causeway Collaborative, has supported over 2000 men and young men from 14-30, effectively changing the way that therapy has been done for guys who have been resistant to help over that time. Now, Vince hopes to share key lessons with men who seek to become better versions of themselves and those who love them. 00:33 Meet Vince Benevento: Founder of Causeway Collaborative 01:20 The Journey to Starting Causeway 03:28 Challenges and Needs of Young Men 04:40 The Role of Male Mentorship 05:02 Practical Life Skills and Career Readiness 05:52 The Importance of Purpose-Driven Work 07:23 The Evolution of Causeway's Approach 08:05 Therapy vs. Career Coaching for Young Men 11:14 Building Confidence Through Competence 15:22 The Crisis of Modern Masculinity 18:25 Changes in Client Archetypes Over the Years 21:32 Overcoming Inertia in Young Men 28:01 Writing 'Boys Will Be Men': A Personal Journey 31:56 The Birth of the Book 33:44 The Eight Lessons 35:14 Brick by Brick 36:58 Name It to Tame It 38:26 Provision is Not a Substitute for Presence 40:34 Find Your Inner Wild 43:16 Never Tap Out 44:42 Iron Sharpens Iron 45:53 Gentle Strength 47:22 Find Your Thing 55:16 Lessons from Adversity Vince's Resources: Boys Will Be Men Book: https://www.amazon.com/Boys-Will-Be-Men-American/dp/1959170317/ref=zg_bsnr_g_11390_d_sccl_20/000-0000000-0000000?psc=1 Causeway Collaborative: https://causewaycollaborative.com/ Brittani's Resources Newsletter: https://brittaniprocknow.substack.com/ Website: https://brittaniprocknow.com
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