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EPISODE · Dec 4, 2025 · 30 MIN

Let Them Be Wrong About You, Pumpkin 😉

from Dating After Betrayal

This episode began with my son being sick… and somehow turned into a spiritual masterclass on identity, boundaries, motherhood, and one very wise pumpkin. In Episode 90, I share the slow, quiet day that cracked my heart open — the day I stopped hustling long enough to meet my child exactly where he was. And how a simple children’s book, It’s a Pumpkin, revealed one of the most powerful lessons I’ve ever learned: You don’t have to argue with people who misunderstand you. You don’t have to shrink to fit their expectations. You don’t have to perform a version of yourself that’s expired. Let them be wrong about you. And because I’m seeing Wicked this week, the Elphaba energy jumped OUT. This episode breaks down what the pumpkin and Elphie have in common — the unapologetic power of knowing who you are, even when the world doesn’t. Inside, we explore: ✨ why slowing down reveals your truest identity ✨ how motherhood activates both your softness and your boundaries ✨ why being misunderstood is actually a sign you’re evolving ✨ how to hold your center when people project onto you ✨ the difference between letting people be wrong and letting them cross you ✨ why identity isn’t a prison — it’s a spell you can rewrite anytime If you’ve been feeling mislabeled, underestimated, stretched thin, or ready to step into a new version of yourself… this episode will feel like a warm hand on your back saying, “You’re allowed to become someone new.” Let people misunderstand you. Let yourself evolve. And whatever you do, don’t let anyone — including your past self — eat you alive. Come listen, Pumpkin. 😉 ✨ ANNOUNCEMENT — My New Program: Dating Like a Boundary Baddie ✨ If you’ve been listening and nodding like, “God, this is me,” then I created something for you. Is this you? You keep attracting men who love your strength but don’t step up. You overgive, overfunction, and overexplain — and then feel resentful. You fall for potential instead of patterns. You lose your softness because you’re exhausted from being in your masculine. You don’t want to settle, but you don’t fully trust yourself in dating yet. You know you’re magnetic, but you haven’t learned how to receive like a queen. Or do you know someone who keeps repeating the same dating cycle, loves too hard too soon, or struggles to uphold boundaries without feeling “mean”? Send them this episode. Because my brand-new program ✨Dating Like a Boundary Baddie✨ is officially open. This is for the independent, high-achieving, strong-willed woman who is ready to shift into her empowered feminine — slow, receptive, playful, grounded — without dimming her fire. Inside, we’re going deep into boundaries, self-worth, emotional safety, dating standards, and the art of receiving from men with ease and confidence. If you’re ready to date with clarity, softness, sovereignty, and high-value energy… Join me on a quick call. Here’s why: On this call, we’ll uncover your exact dating pattern, identify where your energy gets hijacked, and map out the next steps to become the woman who attracts and keeps emotional, consistent, provider-masculine men. This call alone will shift how you see yourself. And if it’s a fit, you can join the program — if not, you’ll still leave with clarity, compassion, and direction. Click here to schedule. Your next season of dating doesn’t have to be painful or confusing. It gets to feel sexy, playful, aligned, and powerful. Let’s make you a Boundary Baddie. Send us Fan Mail

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This episode began with my son being sick… and somehow turned into a spiritual masterclass on identity, boundaries, motherhood, and one very wise pumpkin. In Episode 90, I share the slow, quiet day that cracked my heart open — the day I stopped hustling long enough to meet my child exactly where he was. And how a simple children’s book, It’s a Pumpkin, revealed one of the most powerful lessons I’ve ever learned: You don’t have to argue with people who misunderstand you. You don’t ...

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