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Dating After Betrayal
by Haelly Kirk, Dating After Betrayal Coach
Dating After Betrayal is a candid, grounded, and deeply honest exploration of love, self-trust, and rebuilding after betrayal. Through real dating stories, voice-note-worthy reflections, and honest conversations, Haelly Kirk breaks down what’s actually happening beneath the surface after heartbreak. From attachment patterns and mixed signals to people-pleasing, chemistry, discernment, and learning how to trust yourself again. This isn’t a podcast about “dating perfectly.” It’s about understanding why betrayal changed the way you see love, men, yourself, and your future. It’s about noticing your patterns, questioning the stories betrayal left behind, and learning how to date from clarity, confidence, and calm power instead of fear, fantasy, or survival mode. Come for the dating stories. Stay for the self-trust.
Episodes
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The Truth About Truth: Lindsay Clancy, Charlie Kirk, and the Certainty Complex
If you’ve ever wondered how we decide what is true—or felt frustrated by people who seem absolutely certain about events they never witnessed—this episode will help you question what you believe without becoming cynical, suspicious, or afraid to trust anything. In this episode, Haelly uses the...
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The Tinder Swindler: Everything Women Need to Know About Romance Fraud
If you’ve ever wondered how romance fraud actually happens, or felt afraid that being more discerning would make you cynical, this episode will help you understand how to stay open to love without abandoning wisdom. In this episode, Haelly uses The Tinder Swindler as a case study for romance…
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Can Trust Be Rebuilt After Betrayal? What Meg and Hercules Teach Us About Repair
If you’ve ever wondered whether trust can be rebuilt after betrayal, but felt unsure how to tell the difference between a sincere apology and actual repair, this episode will help you understand what reconciliation truly requires. In this episode, Haelly uses Meg and Hercules from Disney’s…
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The Access Audit: How to Know When Someone’s Access Needs to Change, Even Family
If you’ve ever wondered whether someone’s access to you needs to change, but felt guilty because they are family, this episode will help you separate love from access without abandoning your discernment. In this episode, Haelly uses Scar and Simba from The Lion King as a case study for betrayal,...
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When Men Say They Don’t Date Single Moms: Preference, Contempt, and Being a Package, Not Baggage
If you’ve ever heard a man say, “I don’t date single moms,” and felt that little sting in your chest, this episode will help you separate preference from contempt without making someone else’s belief mean something is wrong with you. In this episode, Haelly talks about a viral conversation where…
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What to Do When a Guy Sends You a Rude Joke or Meme
If you’re still questioning whether you’re “too sensitive,” this episode will help you understand what to do when a man sends you a rude joke, meme, or comment that does not feel funny. In this episode, Haelly talks about a real message she received, why she chose not to laugh it off, and how one...
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What Do You Want? Why It’s Not That Simple
In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the most deceptively simple questions: “What do you want?” Inspired by The Notebook scene where Noah asks Allie this question and she says, “It’s not that simple,” we explore why wanting can feel so complicated, especially when different parts of us want...
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What You Haven’t Learned From Betrayal Yet: A Case Study on Samson and Delilah
If you are interested in learning more about how to heal from betrayal and the sneaky ways you might be sabotaging your future with your dream person, book a call with me HERE. No pressure. I’m nice. And even if we do not end up working together, you will absolutely walk away with some amazing...
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The Mother’s Day Episode You Didn’t Know You Needed
Mother’s Day is beautiful… and for some of us, it’s complicated. In this episode, I’m talking about the part of motherhood we don’t always say out loud: the grief, the guilt, the resentment, the longing, and the little girl inside of us who still wants to be seen by her own mother. I share why...
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The Story You Inherited About Men: What It’s Actually Shaping
In this episode, I’m introducing The Dating Mind Detox by exploring how the stories we inherited about men may still be shaping the way we date today. Before we ever experienced heartbreak, betrayal, ghosting, or dating apps, many of us were already absorbing beliefs about men from our parents,...
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The Courtroom, The Betrayal, and Why I Became A Dating Coach
This episode is a little bit of everything… the courtroom, the betrayal, and the lessons that came through it. I share what happened with my pendente lite case, how I almost didn’t file, and what shifted when I finally decided to take action. But more than that, this episode is about a…
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The Dating Mistake that Feels Like "Being Nice": Mr. Styrofoam Explained
Ready to stop overthinking your dating life and start getting real clarity? Book your FREE 20-minute dating consult here: [Insert Link] If you’re navigating confusing situations, patterns that keep repeating, or you just want expert eyes on your dating profile or current connection—I’ve got you.…
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He Was Everything… Except Available 💔 Mr. Logistically Unavailable, Explained
Ready to stop overthinking your dating life and start getting real clarity? Book your FREE 20-minute dating consult here: [Insert Link] If you’re navigating confusing situations, patterns that keep repeating, or you just want expert eyes on your dating profile or current connection—I’ve got you.…
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The Internet Says Single Moms Are "Ruining The Dating Pool"....
Single moms — or those of you who know and love a single mom — pay attention. I’m hosting a FREE workshop called Love Without Anxiety on March 9th and March 16th at 5:30 PM EST, where I’ll be teaching the mindset and strategies that help single moms date with clarity instead of anxiety. Reserve...
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Dating Isn’t Working… Yet: The Art of Wanting
If you’ve been dating for a while and it hasn’t worked… If you’ve gone on the apps, tried the dates, put yourself out there… and still haven’t found your person… If you’re starting to feel rejected, tired, maybe even a little hopeless… If thoughts like “Maybe I’m just meant to be single.” “Maybe...
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Demystifying Imposter Syndrome: What It’s Actually Pointing To
Imposter syndrome is usually treated like a confidence problem. But what if it’s actually information? In this episode, we demystify imposter syndrome by exploring what it’s really pointing to — not as a flaw to fix, but as a signal worth listening to. Through my personal reflection and a recent...
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Cracks, But Not Broken: Healing with Fire, Faith & Feminine Power with Adlin Morales Aguilú
In this powerful and heart-opening episode, I sit down with clinical therapist, woman of faith, and fierce advocate for healing, Adlin Morales Aguilú, to talk about her book Cracks, But Not Broken. Adlin shares her deeply personal journey of emotional healing, spiritual restoration, and…
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Presence over Perfection: The Christmas We Actually Need
Christmas has a way of convincing us that it has to be bigger, better, and more beautiful every year. In this episode, Haelly uses How the Grinch Stole Christmas as a mirror for modern holiday pressure, reflecting on Martha May Whovier energy, Betty Lou Who stress, and the chaos that comes from...
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For That Day When Shit Hits the Fan… Yeah, Listen to This.
Today was one of those days — and if you’ve ever had a moment where everything collapses at once, this episode is for you. My car literally died in the middle of the road. A stranger in a giant truck rescued me. NTB held me hostage for three hours, then dropped a $445 bill on me. My toddler was...
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Dating Like a Scientist: The Art of Experimenting Without Losing Yourself
What if dating didn’t have to feel heavy, confusing, or high-stakes? In this episode, Haelly breaks down the simple shift that transformed her entire dating journey — moving from pressure and performance mode into pure curiosity. Learn how to date like a scientist: observing behavior, gathering...
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Let Them Be Wrong About You, Pumpkin 😉
This episode began with my son being sick… and somehow turned into a spiritual masterclass on identity, boundaries, motherhood, and one very wise pumpkin. In Episode 90, I share the slow, quiet day that cracked my heart open — the day I stopped hustling long enough to meet my child exactly where…
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Why Children Think Everything Is Their Fault
In this episode, I share a moment at the airport that completely reshaped the way I see motherhood. After rewatching Freakier Friday, I was reminded of the day Israel thought I was mad at him—simply because I rushed a goodbye on my way to catch a flight. Kids don’t see context… they see energy.…
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Learning to Fall Like a Kid Again—“Mommy, Look! I Fell!”
This week’s episode comes straight from a moment at the park with my son, Israel — and honestly, it wrecked me in the best way. We were climbing this giant spider-web rope structure, bouncing around, and Israel suddenly fell. Not a soft fall — a real fall. And instead of crying or getting...
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Wicked: Lessons on Friendship, Freedom, and Becoming Wickedly Unlimited
Okay y’all… this one got me. Wicked cracked me wide open. I’m talking goosebumps, tears, full-body chills. In this episode, I dive into the moments that completely undid me — Galinda choosing kindness over coolness, that powerful dance that redefined friendship, Elphaba standing up for what’s…
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Tiny Wins, Big Energy: The 10x Shift You Don’t See Coming
🚨 72-HOUR GIVEAWAY ALERT! 🚨 We’re celebrating a 10x leap in podcast growth (from $0.04 to $0.48 😂🔥) — and I want YOU to join the party! I’m giving away three Amazon Gift Cards to my amazing listeners: 👑 Grand Prize: $25 💖 Second Place: $15 ✨ Third Place: $10 You have 72 hours — until…
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Permission to Pout: The Power of a Pity Party
In this episode, we flip the script on sadness. What if falling apart isn’t a failure but a form of emotional intelligence? From the law of entropy that governs the cosmos to the yin-yang truth that darkness and light need each other, she explores why breaking down is part of nature’s design. A...
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The Power of ‘Yet’: What Lindsey Stirling Taught Me About Going Pro
Back in July, I went to a Lindsey Stirling concert expecting great music—but I walked away with a life lesson I’ll never forget. In the middle of her performance, she paused to reflect on her journey and said, “I wasn’t good enough… yet.” That one word—yet—hit me like a lightning bolt. It was a...
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Life Is Uncertain, But You’ve Got You
Sometimes life hits you with the kind of chaos you can’t plan for — canceled flights, glitchy systems, impossible deadlines. In this episode, I share two moments that tested my calm and my perseverance: the unexpected delay that turned my trip into a full week away from my son, and the…
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If You Want Something, Then Let Yourself Have It
If you want something, then let yourself have it. That’s the lesson I had to face when planning my trip to California — holding my son’s father accountable for his word, navigating the fallout, and choosing my want over fear. In this episode, I share: The story behind saying yes to California…
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More Than a Title
Why do we tie our worth to the titles we hold, the achievements we rack up, or the way we appear to others? In this episode, I share four stories — from being treated like VIP as a TSR dance teacher, to the Speaker of the House losing perks once the title was gone, to Michael Phelps’ post-Olympic...
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How a Trash Can Taught Me Boundaries
What do a stolen trash can, a Hobby Lobby moment, and a book on boundaries have in common? They all taught me the same lesson: courage shows up in the small, ordinary moments — often with shaking hands. In this episode, I share the story of confronting my neighbor after she admitted to sending…
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Ever Felt Small Next to Someone’s Big Title? How a Lab Coat Gave Me Imposter Syndrome
I was talking to a man in a lab coat — literal oncologist energy. And when he asked what I did, I said it: “I’m like a life coach.” What happened next wasn’t about him… it was about me. In this episode, I unpack the spiral of comparison, the shame that crept in, and the belief that I wasn’t…
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How to Own Your Throne, Even When You Feel Shaky
Have you ever felt like all your value disappeared the minute you messed up? In this episode, I share the raw and real story of how I showed up nearly two hours late to a retreat I was co-leading… and the mental spiral that followed. I didn’t want to run away — I wanted to shrink, fawn,...
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The Silent Struggles of Chronic Illness: Melissa’s Journey to Find Answers For Herself and Others
What happens when the medical system doesn’t have the answers you need? At 25, Melissa’s life changed forever after a vaccine injury left her battling chronic illness. For 15 years, she fought not only her health but the frustrating gaslighting from doctors who couldn’t—or wouldn’t—help her. In...
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Why Does My Child Hit? Understanding Behavior with Pediatric OT Stacey
Ever wondered why your child reacts by hitting or struggles with big emotions? In this episode, pediatric OT Stacey helps unpack the hidden reasons behind these challenging behaviors. We explore how sensory overload and the brain's "rooms" can impact a child's ability to communicate, leading to...
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Healing Through Movement: Olivia's Journey from Trauma to Empowerment
What happens when the very people and places meant to protect you become the source of your deepest wounds? In this powerful and moving episode, Olivia shares her story of growing up in a strict religious household where silence, shame, and abuse shaped her earliest understanding of herself and…
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Good Things Are Worth Waiting For
In this vulnerable solo episode, I open up about the ache of longing—the deep desire to find my person and the moments when waiting feels almost unbearable. I talk about the quiet grief of being single when you know how much love you have to give, the temptation to settle just to feel something,...
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You Are Limitless: How I Finally Got Unstuck, Built Real Momentum — and How You Can Too
You ever set a big goal... only to feel completely stuck, overwhelmed, or even a little embarrassed when the momentum didn’t last? That was me. I set out to hit 1,000 podcast downloads in 30 days — and at first, it felt like nothing was working. I was scattered, out of alignment, and low-key...
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Inflammaging: The Silent Skin Killer You Need to Know About
Chronic inflammation is more than just a buzzword—it’s the hidden culprit behind aging skin, weakened immunity, and more. Dr. Ebru Karpuzoglu, a renowned immunologist and the founder of AveSeena, joins us to explain inflammaging—a term she coined to describe how inflammation accelerates the aging...
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I Found Out I Have an Addiction
In this deeply personal episode, I share the moment I realized I have an addiction — not to substances, but to being busy. After an overwhelming day of nonstop productivity left me feeling empty, I asked a simple but powerful question: “Do I have an addiction to doing?” What followed was a...
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Can Breathwork Really Heal You? Aumfirhia Shows You How
In this powerful episode, I sit down with my friend Fire (Aumfirhia) Chavez, a breath work guide whose story is as transformative as the practice he teaches. Fire opens up about how he discovered breath work during a pivotal point in his life, the science and soul behind why it works, and how it...
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The Walk for Love: James Walked Across a Country… for Her
What if the most powerful way to say “I love you” wasn’t with words… but with 14 days of walking across a country? In this unforgettable episode, James Thompson returns to share his most personal journey yet: a 14-day trek across Costa Rica to propose to his fiancée, Vanessa. After walking across...
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When the Coach Gets Coached: Brittni Helps Me Unblock a Friendship Wound
What happens when the coach needs coaching? In this raw and revealing episode, I sit down with life coach Brittni Cosgrove, whose superpower is turning self-sabotage into strategy. She shows people how to flip the very blocks that keep them stuck—whether in relationships, career, or…
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The Spirit of Aloha: Healing, History, and Hula with DC Hula Girls
In this vibrant and soul-stirring episode, I’m joined by Ma‘a, Sarah, and Lydia from DC Hula Girls—three powerful women keeping Pacific Island culture alive through the spirit of Aloha. 🌺 We explore: The deep history of Hawai‘i and the impact of its invasion What it means to be of mixed ethnic...
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I love you... and I need space.
This episode is a full-circle reflection on one of the most enlightening friendships of my life — a story of missed birthdays, missed weddings, unspoken judgments, and unexpected grace. What do we do when someone we love stops walking beside us? How do we process subtle betrayals and growing...
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Letting Go to Level Up: An Entrepreneur’s Pivot by Virak Chhang
In this episode, I sit down with my friend Virak—a brilliant photographer, entrepreneur, and creative visionary—who recently made the bold decision to close his photo shop to pursue new passions. We talk about what it really takes to evolve as an entrepreneur, the emotional weight of walking away...
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How to Bounce Back When Things Don’t Go Your Way
In this episode, we’re talking about a universal truth—disappointment hurts. Whether it’s a breakup, a job you didn’t get, or just life not going the way you planned, that sting is real. But it doesn’t have to break you. Join me as we unpack the science and soul of disappointment: Why it affects...
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How to Start a Podcast (Without Overthinking It) – A Beginner’s Guide with Ryan
Have you been sitting on a podcast idea, but don’t know where to start? In this episode, I sit down with Ryan—co-creator of Your Average Dancer Podcast—to talk about what it really takes to launch a podcast from scratch. We talk about: How to name your podcast and find your niche The equipment…
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30 Years Married & Still in Love? I Had to Know How—With Relationship Experts Robin Temple & Michael Moore
I’ll be honest—I’ve been pretty cynical about marriage. As a single mom and divorced woman, I’ve seen how love can fade, how relationships can fall apart, and how hard it can be to make things work. But this conversation with Michael and Robin cracked my heart open in a way I didn’t expect....
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Through My Father’s Eyes
What makes a great parent? Is it the big lessons, the deep conversations, or the little moments in between? In this episode, I sit down with the man who raised me—my dad—for an honest and heartfelt conversation about parenting, life, and the lessons that shaped us both. We talk about what it was...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Dating After Betrayal is a candid, grounded, and deeply honest exploration of love, self-trust, and rebuilding after betrayal.
Through real dating stories, voice-note-worthy reflections, and honest conversations, Haelly Kirk breaks down what’s actually happening beneath the surface after heartbreak. From attachment patterns and mixed signals to people-pleasing, chemistry, discernment, and learning how to trust yourself again.
This isn’t a podcast about “dating perfectly.”
It’s about understanding why betrayal changed the way you see love, men, yourself, and your future.
It’s about noticing your patterns, questioning the stories betrayal left behind, and learning how to date from clarity, confidence, and calm power instead of fear, fantasy, or survival mode.
Come for the dating stories. Stay for the self-trust.
HOSTED BY
Haelly Kirk, Dating After Betrayal Coach
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