EPISODE · Jul 24, 2023 · 3 MIN
Letting Go Of Relationships
from Light Messages with Deborah DeMoss Smith · host Deborah DeMoss Smith
As beings of Light of the All-That-Is, you and I are here in this physical world to increase our Light. Sometimes that means letting go of relationships that drain you. It’s analogous to caring for a garden. In order to plant new flower seeds, you first must get rid of the clutter or weeds in your garden. It is no different with your life. It’s important that you remove those people or actions that no longer support you. Seeds also need time to grow before their blossoms appear; it may take time before you can see the new faces and the new supportive relationships in your life, but those blossoms will appear. But what about those who don’t want this change, who resent your changing, those who want you and the way things have always been to remain so? Send them loving light as they exit your life. It is not your job to take care of them. Your job is to tend and nurture you, beginning by being humble. What? Being humble does not mean giving yourself over to others or trying to please them. It means accepting change and walking into a new life, new situations, new experiences EAGER to learn to shine with the joy of you. When I began offering psychic medium readings to others, my long-time friend Jerry refused to even attempt to understand this change in me. He wanted me and our relationship to never change but eventually it did - by my ending it. One of the constants of the Universe is change and choosing to change your Light is a courageous and joyous choice that will cause you to celebrate! I suggest doing so with dark chocolate and cool music! Reminder: for your personal reading go to ravenlightmessages.com and whatever you do today, choose joy!
What this episode covers
As beings of Light of the All-That-Is, you and I are here in this physical world to increase our Light. Sometimes that means letting go of relationships that drain you. It’s analogous to caring for a garden. In order to plant new flower seeds, you first must get rid of the clutter or weeds in your garden. It is no different with your life. It’s important that you remove those people or actions that no longer support you. Seeds also need time to grow before their blossoms appear; it may take time before you can see the new faces and the new supportive relationships in your life, but those blossoms will appear. But what about those who don’t want this change, who resent your changing, those who want you and the way things have always been to remain so? Send them loving light as they exit your life. It is not your job to take care of them. Your job is to tend and nurture you, beginning by being humble. What? Being humble does not mean giving yourself over to others or trying to please them. It means accepting change and walking into a new life, new situations, new experiences EAGER to learn to shine with the joy of you. When I began offering psychic medium readings to others, my long-time friend Jerry refused to even attempt to understand this change in me. He wanted me and our relationship to never change but eventually it did - by my ending it. One of the constants of the Universe is change and choosing to change your Light is a courageous and joyous choice that will cause you to celebrate! I suggest doing so with dark chocolate and cool music! Reminder: for your personal reading go to ravenlightmessages.com and whatever you do today, choose joy!
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