Light Messages with Deborah DeMoss Smith

What is self-love to you? Each person defines it differently. Because learning to love yourself is a personal journey. Self-love is not narcissism or defined outside of you by others’ approvals and judgements. Did you grow up believing that you have to be perfect in order to be loved or that if you loved yourself you were selfish?To love yourself is to believe and trust in yourself without constant critical judgement. Learn to appreciate every moment you have with yourself and know that whatever happened that day, you did your best and let it go. Every time you feel you’re being entangled negatively by something that just happened, let it go and send love to yourself. You have the power to do that.

This paint-by-number activity may seem like child’s play, but it’s more than that. we live in a realm of streamng data – phones, tvs, videos that demand and captures our attention.  Hence, it’s vital we not lose our ability to focus solely w/o distraction.One way is to follow the flow of something that is already created. The paint by number image is a way to do that.   it teaches you stillness, image focusing and to be at one with yourself. Which in turn teaches you to follow your inner guidance, your powerful intuitive, known as your gut instinct that’s connected to the nonphysical world. So get yourself a paint-by-number kit and start paint and start focusing.

Are the down swings of life getting in the way of your happiness and self-appreciation? My guides say that if life went smoothly all the time, you would be denying yourself opportunities for your higher self - your spirit self - to grow and to expand your Light. Pain creates change and change creates a chance to make different choices in finding out who you truly are and truly can be. There are no accidents in the universe, just choices. Choose expanding your Light and as always, whatever you do, choose joy.

January is the bridge between the dark winterand the returning light - a time to STEP from theold year into the new.Here’s an apt metaphor: Life is about walkingthough the darkness and finding the Light.As you do this, steer clear of over analyzing andover judging your past. Your past is just that.Constantly recalling your past – I call thisbackwards looping - is a roadblock toconnecting to your INTUITIVE Higher Self,Your Core Light’s WISDOM, and headingtoward a future of TRUST + FULFILLMENT.Here’s an exercise: visualize cutting andreleasing that cord to the past, while honoringthe Light within you.Whatever you do, choose joy!For more podcasts and events go to:ravenlightmessages.com and Facebook! Thanks!

1. PATIENCE Learn patience and embrace hope. Allow yourself to let go of the fear of failure within you.2. POISON-LESS MIND Again, be hopeful! Every moment in life has an energy or vibration + frequency. By CHOOSING to be hopeful and not hopeless, you're releasing a mindset that's poisoned by worry and fear of failure.3. PEACE Learn to be at peace in your mind by:    - By trusting and loving yourself.    - By trusting your connection to the nonphysical real via your inner guidance also known as your INTUITIVE self, your intuition.To schedule a personal reading with me, go ravenlightmessages.com. Thanks and whatever you do today, choose joy!

Ah, the sweet perfume of a gardenia, a subtropical flower found in the warm, humid Deep South where I’m today.Jazz legend Billie Holiday always wore a gardenia in her hair when she sang.Gardenia flower SYMBOLIZES SPIRITUAL PROTECTION AND HOPE when faced with a new beginning, when you’re ready to turn over a new leaf – and ready to leave the a negative behind - shower all with loving Light.Quantum physics suggests that EVERYTHING has its own vibration and FREQUENCY, including this gardenia, you, me and all in the Universe.When you smell the gardenia’s sweetness, your nose is not connecting to the gardenia physically but its vibration that asks you to choose: do you wish to greet the gardenia’s vibrations with hope and joy?

Today’s podcast centers around okra, a fruit brought by the enslaved from Africa and eaten across the South. It’s a critical ingredient in gumbo.Okra thrives in harsh conditions and symbolizes flexibility, survival, and resilience. My guides tell me that okra teaches us to be more flexible in life, including how you think about yourself. Stop all that self-judgment!They remind us to become a part of the physical world, but don’t lose yourself, that core light that’s the real you, or you’ll miss the true gift of flexibility: joy.

As an intuitive medium I have many ways of meeting people. Notably, through my website or speaking engagements, I meet people who wish to have a reading. And here’s a fun one. Recently I had a 6-hour flight across the U.S., and I had my two cats with me. The flight attendant at one point came to me and asked if she could look at my cats, who were in airline-policy netted carriers made so you can see them. You know I fly all the time, and I worry about my cats. I don’t know what he’s thinking, what he’s doing. Is he sad and what’s going on with him? I informed her I was an animal communicator – and a people one, too. She asked me to read him. I agreed and focused on Calico and soon gave her the message from her cat. Oh, the joy of my work!If you’d like a reading with your cat, your animal, your friend, your pet and for you, go to ravenlightmessages.com to schedule your appointment and choose joy!

Today’s podcast: A child is pinned under a car and the frantic mother cannot lift it. Suddenly a stranger appears and effortlessly rescues the child. As the joyful mother hugs her youngster, she turns to thank the stranger, but no one is there. Who was this stranger? This being was not a human being but was from the nonphysical realm, for it is not possible to enter into the full human experience of the 5 senses, emotions, intellect and intuition, without being incarnated, born into a human form. Beings that materialize suddenly to perform a rescue and then vanish are of the nonphysical Universe. They are here for only a brief moment to do their work.

Three Steps to Appreciating and Loving Yourself

Do you know what it’s like when you begin giving too much of your energy away? You begin to shorten your life. As a light being, you are not here to spin your wheels, but to brighten your light by experiencing challenges and choices in the human form.  Here’s a quick way to reenergize you that takes only seconds or longer if so wish. So, no excuses! For more lm podcasts or to schedule a personal reading with me or a life coach session for your group, use ravenlightmessages. Com.  Choose joy!  1. Visualize yourself lying face-up quietly on a cot. Close your eyes. Over you is an energetic light of the universe that gives calming and comforting warmth throughout your body. 2. Around you, you feel a tingling movement as you connect to this vibrational recharging light of the universe. 3. Open your eyes. This is a way to regenerate you when you are tired, not feeling up to facing life’s challenges and your resistance is down.4. Make it a habit each day or several times a day of putting yourself under this. Put yourself in this light from the nonphysical realm and you’ll replenish the energy that you’ve lost. 5. How does it work? Think quantum physics. For, the quantum universe is an intricately connected network where energy travels and interacts with other frequencies, such as each of us.

BRIGHTEN YOUR CORE LIGHT How do you brighten your light your authentic self, your core? I asked my Guides this question. They said: 1. Know that you chose to live on this planet, with its linear time of past, present and future, to experience a human life that reflects the life missions that you set up before you incarnated into a life filled with intentions, challenges and choices. 2. Be lenient with yourself. Stop all that self-judgment. There is no judgement in the nonphysical realm.  3. Be flexible in your moods and desires. Choose hope and joy each day. They are bright light energies. 4. Practice courage. Courage brings change. No longer step away from what feels safe. It takes from you your courage. It takes from you that bridge that will create authentic light energy transitions for you.  5. Practice forgiveness. This will negate your carrying the burden and judgement of yourself and others. 6. Honor your light and the Universe with gratitude.  7. Love yourself. Unconditional love is the highest vibration of your authentic Light. FOR MORE LM PODCASTS OR TO SCHEDULE A PERSONAL READING WITH ME OR A LIFE COACH SESSION FOR YOUR GROUP, USE RAVENLIGHTMESSAGES. COM AND WHATEVER YOU DO TODAY, CHOOSE JOY!

As an intuitive medium and life coach, i see, hear, feel and connect to nonphysical energy, such as one’s guides, those who’ve passed or other beings in the universe. We all have spirit guides but when one guide came into my life, he was definitely, as say in “alice in wonderland” curiouser and curiouser because he had the ability to disappear and reappear.  My introduction to this spirit began when i felt a presence, an energy, around me. At the time in my own life things would disappear all of a sudden; they weren’t there. For example, something i just had in my hands wasn’t there. Each time, i had a feeling that what i was looking for wasn’t misplaced; it was something that was being hidden from me, as these missing objects would at times show up in the oddest places, places like a box in the basement thathadn’t be opened in 5 years.  Eventually, i saw this visitor. When i asked who are you? He replied i’m your guide. I come to you when you are stuck in the mire of life, feeling a web of disillusionment and confusion and have forgotten a rule of the universe. I recall thinking “great, this guide wants to play a game of ‘name this universal rule.’ and why is he wearing that outfit?” You see, he looked like an Irish leprechaun. Mr. leprechaun and I communicated through the mind and vibrational energy. He informed me he’d been hiding my things from me to teach me this rule of the universe. Here it is: all things and actions are in constant change. Change, change, change. He said, “you were searching for something that you adamantly thought should still be where you just placed it, a past action. You are to understand that you are not to be challenged or held back by trying to hold on to your past, whether it be past regrets, self-judgments, resentments or those car keys you can’t find. Know that in the spirit world there is no time, no pasts.” After his sage words, he disappeared before I could ask him: did he put my treasured pencil sent to me from the elephant sanctuary in Tennessee somewhere?

A Poem of Light Today’s podcast is a poem called A Poem of Light and was given to me by Heldon, one of my nonphysical guides. Heldon spoke with a Middle English dialect of the 1200s. Here’s this assuring life poem, followed by comments. Leave yourself open and you will see That the day of your Light is upon thee. Keep your heart firm and you will always know That the path of which you walk is that of secure. Understand your trust and through it you will find The rose of your Light and the thorns of your mind.  You leave yourself open by being humble to receiving this. Light and with no preconceptions of how a light message should come to you.  You keep your heart firm by standing first in your heart; you came to earth to love and trust yourself. It’s also the first step to loving others. As my grandmother would say: “You can’t give what you don’t have.” You understand your trust by paying attention to your intuition, your inner guidance. This expands your Light’s brilliance while smoothing out the thorns of your mind, those negative thoughts that are the antithesis of peace.  Check out the poem at ravenlightmessages.com and schedule your personal reading there, too. Whatever, you do, choose joy and maybe a bite of pecan pie! Deborah received “A Poem of Light” from one of her guides when she began her path to increasing her Light’s brightness. She turns to it when she seeks encouragement today! Check out the poem on ravenlightmessages.com website and also schedule your personal reading there with me. Whatever you do today, choose joy and maybe a bit of pecan pie!

Today’s podcast is an emotional one. The title?  Those Pesky Emotional Enigmas. As a human being you possess emotions. It’s a package deal that comes with living in a physical body; it’s also one of the reasons you and I as Light Beings seeking to increase our Light’s brilliance, decided to experience life on this planet. The following Light message were, given to me by my Guides (and a reminder you have guides, too), encapsulates the four declarations of EW, an acronym for emotional wisdom.  It’s important to acknowledge and experience the full spectrum of life’s emotions. Emotions lead to the heart and the heart is connected to your Light, your core being. The heart knows your Light better than the mind. Emotions vs feelings: Emotions are a reaction to your in-the-moment reality, that time before you’ve processed or analyzed an emotion. Feelings are influenced by the narratives you’ve generated in your mind based on past events or future fears, whether in this lifetime or a past lifetime.  Listen to your emotions. Shaped by the data from your five senses, your emotions can help you connect to the uncluttered reality of an experience rather than a misleading story stuck in your head that you keep playing over and over. Feelings usually don’t reflect the truth of a situation. I could offer you ten examples of relying erroneously on my feelings. Bet you can offer some as well. To achieve soul growth or your Light’s brilliance, you must make responsible life choices, be nonjudgmental with yourself, flexible in your moods, i.e., not dwelling on the past or fearful of the future, and hopeful in your emotions. By consciously creating these around you, you will   garner joy and abundance in life, including a favorite of mine: dark chocolate!!!

No matter what lifetime you’re on – 6 or 2,006 - your mission never wavers: to evolve your Light and to love yourself without judgement.  When you choose to incarnate on this planet, you choose to experience all that comes with being a human being, including emotions, the five physical senses, the mind and intuition, your Wi-fi connection to your Light and the Nonphysical Realm. It can take more than one lifetime on Earth to evolve your Light. Some of the issues you’re dealing with this lifetime often first arose in another lifetime and you’ve returned to Earth to deal with them. Here’s an example:     In one past life I was a widow living with my four children in The Alps. One winter there was not enough food to feed the five of us. Instead of all of us dying, I decided to take the two youngest children far from home into a desolate area and leave them there. I carried that guilt with me and in this lifetime, the opportunity arose for me to deal with the guilt and expand my Light. When I gave birth to a six-pound daughter, my husband and I were exuberant. Once she was home, problems developed. She was not thriving; she was dying from malnutrition – her weight had descended from six pounds to 2.5 pounds. She was admitted to Children’s Hospital. I would not leave her; I incessantly assured her that I would not abandon her under any circumstances. I would rock her tiny tube-laden body urging her to live, live, live. When she was finally strong enough to go home, the medical team warned us that she would most likely be mentally challenged. In time I asked my Guides about our experience. They said that she had died many lifetimes as a child and was determined to make it this lifetime. And as for me, it was imperative that I now forgive myself and cease carrying the guilt from a past life, for I didn’t abandon my daughter this lifetime.  Our daughter? Today’s she’s a financial wizard and speaks fluent French. To leave a comment or schedule a personal reading, go to ravenlightmessages.com and whatever you do, choose joy!

As beings of Light of the All-That-Is, you and I are here in this physical world to increase our Light. Sometimes that means letting go of relationships that drain you.  It’s analogous to caring for a garden. In order to plant new flower seeds, you first must get rid of the clutter or weeds in your garden. It is no different with your life. It’s important that you remove those people or actions that no longer support you. Seeds also need time to grow before their blossoms appear; it may take time before you can see the new faces and the new supportive relationships in your life, but those blossoms will appear. But what about those who don’t want this change, who resent your changing, those who want you and the way things have always been to remain so? Send them loving light as they exit your life. It is not your job to take care of them. Your job is to tend and nurture you, beginning by being humble. What? Being humble does not mean giving yourself over to others or trying to please them. It means accepting change and walking into a new life, new situations, new experiences EAGER to learn to shine with the joy of you. When I began offering psychic medium readings to others, my long-time friend Jerry refused to even attempt to understand this change in me. He wanted me and our relationship to never change but eventually it did - by my ending it. One of the constants of the Universe is change and choosing to change your Light is a courageous and joyous choice that will cause you to celebrate! I suggest doing so with dark chocolate and cool music! Reminder: for your personal reading go to ravenlightmessages.com and whatever you do today, choose joy! 

Recently I was reminded of an astute and treasured metaphor from my guides: Your body is a light fixture; its bulb is your Light. We all came to this physical world to expand our Light’s brilliance and one of the most powerful avenues to increase your Light is to love yourself with nonjudgmental self-pride. Undoubtedly many of y’all are now thinking of 10,000 reasons why you can’t do that, or deserve to do that, such as you’ve done something detrimental to yourself and others repeatedly. My response? That was yesterday, this is today, this moment, which is all you and I really have anyway.    Without self-pride, your life can be unmanageable and ever the slippery slope.  Here’s what my guides have to say about self-pride: What happens to those who lose their pride? They become depressed, they forfeit their freedom, they are easily manipulated, putting themselves in situations where there is abuse and the future feels hopeless. It’s comparable to a bird placed in a tree without having wings to fly, for it is pride that gives it wings and the ability to soar. Consider taking these words with you today and putting them into soaring action: “In this moment and onward, I choose pride in myself; it is my loving and joyful right.”  Your guides and those on the Other Side will support you upon your request. Plus, your Light will expand with brightness, so bright that you and everyone one else around you might just have to put on sunglasses! Reminder: For your personal light message or reading, go to ravenlightmessages.com!

Fear will chase you and keep you from living peacefully and keep it frightened emotionally. Let's talk about how to live free of fear in this week's episode.

Your soul is far from a stagnant thing, but where does it travel to? In this episode, we talk about how your soul travels and where it goes. 

Known as extraterrestrials, the Grays are not aliens to me. My first encounter came when I was seven. Three entities came in and out of my peripheral vision. Bald all over, they looked weird. I recall thinking, well, at least they don’t have to worry about their hair. (Your see, my mom had just broken a comb trying to get the tangles out of my thick hair. They would continue their nonaggressive visits and still do. I soon realized that the Grays, like us, were Light beings with souls and were not to be feared.

How do we be still and focused in an ever-hectic world? In today´s message, I give you a fun AND colorful exercise that can help you can do at home. 

Today we explore William Shakespeare´s famous line and how it can connect to a deeper meaning about living in the physical. 

In this episode, we discuss what is often a heavy topic...death. Deborah shares her personal experience with grief and how we can understand death in a deeper, more beautiful way. 

Today we talk about sparkles and how these inconspicuous specks of light can actually be messages from the universe sent to guide you. 

In today´s episode, Deborah discusses her own experience with depression and how we can nurture our own light. 

In this episode, Deborah discusses the power of intuition and how we can add this innate sense to our everyday toolbox. 

In this episode we discuss red dots: what does it mean if you see them and how can we process energy beyond the physical? 

Wondering what a light message is? Learn more in this episode!

In this episode Deborah discusses one of her guides she interacts with frequently. Hear the story and get more insight into light messages by listening now! 

In this episode Deborah discusses more about how light messages work and how clients must arrive to sessions for the best guidance. 

Anger – a hot topic indeed! In this message we discuss dealing with anger that is targeted toward you. 

Beyond our five senses, lies the core of our being: our spirit or Light self. From here, and from the spiritual realm (your guides, nonphysical teachers and angels), light messages emanate. As a spiritual conduit, it is those messages I perceive and offer to you during a session.

In this episode Deborah discusses what she sees during sessions with clients and how she uses her gifts to help guide others. 

In this episode, Deborah discusses the difference between light messages, dreams, and visions.