Listener question: what is the experience after realisation?

I have been reading recently about how people who experienced the realisation of non-duality (not sure how else I could call it) experience life day to day. What’s the difference between the before and after the realisation. A few people pointed out that any kind of emotional suffering completely ceased for them and they experience nothing but peace or bliss every single day I don’t know why I’m sceptical of it but that’s my problem :) so I thought I’d ask you about your experience and whether this is everyone’s experience after that realisation.My hunch tells me, the suffering, distress, anxiety and all those emotions we label as negative, still happen but our relationship to them changes as they are not seen as problematic but, of course, I can see how others may really be at peace at all times. Anyway, I’d really appreciate your input.