Loneliness

“The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly.”― F. Scott Fitzgerald Loneliness is a complex emotional state characterized by feelings of emptiness and disconnection, significantly impacting mental health and well-being. Loneliness is often described as the effective and cognitive discomfort that arises from being or perceiving oneself to be alone or solitary. It reflects gap between one’s desired and actual social connections, leading to feelings of emptiness, isolation and craving for human contact. Unlike simply being alone, which can be a neutral or even positive experience, loneliness is inherently negative and can occur even in the presence of others. “Sometimes, you just need that one person to tell you that you’re not as alone as you feel.” — Unknown “The soul that sees beauty may sometimes walk alone.” — Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe “You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with.” — Wayne Dyer “The worst loneliness is not to be comfortable with yourself.” — Mark Twain “Loneliness adds beauty to life. It puts a special burn on sunsets and makes night air smell better.” — Henry Rollins Loneliness is an unpleasant emotional response to perceived or actual isolation. Loneliness has been described as social pain, a psychological mechanism that motivates individuals to seek social connections. This condition is frequently associated to a perceived lack of emotional connection and intimacy. Loneliness overlaps and yet is distinct from solitude. Solitude is simply the state of being apart from others; however, not all individuals who experience solitude feels lonely. Loneliness, as a subjective emotion, can be experienced even in the presence of others. The cause of loneliness are varied. Loneliness can be a result of genetic inheritance, cultural factors, a lack of meaningful relationships, a significant loss, an excessive reliance on passive technologies (particularly the internet in the 21st century), and a self-perpetuating mindset. Research has demonstrated that loneliness is ever-present in society, including among people in marriages along with other strong relationships, and those with successful careers. Most people experience loneliness at some points in their lives, and some feel it often. Loneliness is found to be the highest among younger people as according to the BBC Loneliness Experiment, 40% people within the age group 16–24 admit to feeling lonely while the percentage of people who feel lonely above age 75 is around 30%. Medical treatment for loneliness include beginning therapy and taking class of medications used to treat depression and other mental health conditions such as anxiety and obsessive compulsive disorder. Social treatments for loneliness generally include an increase in interaction with others, such as group activities, reengaging with old friends or colleagues, own pets, and becoming more connected with one’s community. Loneliness has long been viewed as a universal condition which, at least to a moderate extent, is felt by everyone. From this perspective, some degree of loneliness is inevitable as the limitations of human life mean it is impossible for anyone to continually satisfy their inherent need for connection. Professors including Michele A. Carter and Ben Lazare Mijuskovic have written books and essays tracking the existential perspective and the many writers who have talked about it throughout history.