Loosen your Grip & Get What You Want

 In today's episode, I discuss the concept of psychological reactance; the motivation to regain freedom after it's been threatened.  This level of pressure people feel when they are being coerced or controlled into being made to adhere to a manual for what they should be thinking, doing, and being creates a triggered behavioral response. This is why you telling your romantic partner what to do to please you is often met with disappointment.You may have noticed that if someone pushes you to do something, it often makes you feel less inclined to do it. You can only get what you want when you release the manual and follow the steps laid out today to loosen your grip... this is where you start getting what you want.Tune into episode 60 wherever you get your episodes.If you're ready to get what you WANT inside your marriage - join Recharge Your Marriage Masterclass. Be sure to save your seat by 9/1 at 11:59pm ET. We are live on September 11th at 7:30 PM ETYour most impeccable life is waiting for you.  Learn more about how you will start seeing all of the amazing possibilities when you have a coached brain.