EPISODE · Nov 22, 2013 · 12 MIN
Losing Yourself
from TheSingleGirl Podcast · host TheSingleGirl
Losing Yourself in Relationships I will admit that I am as guilty as the next person of changing who I am just to fit into the illusion of why my mate wants me to be. I cannot even count the number of times I have said or done something that was not I just to please, or attempt to please, the person I was with. This is one of the largest double-edged swords when it comes to relationships. How many times have you been faced with the words, “Your not who you used to be?” or “You are not the one I fell in love with.” well DUH! People change through experiences and relationships. Sometimes we make a conscious decision to change who we are, and at times this happens without us even being aware of it. For me it would happen in the most desperate of time. Most often when I was looking for love, or worse, trying to keep it. One day I woke up and decided that enough was enough. And after a very short attempt at getting back into the dating scene I realized that my decision was the right one. This podcast is dedicated to my stupidity when it came to altering me to fit what I thought someone else wanted. My Advice is you’re like this: Remember that they are with you because the met you! Not whom you think they want you to be! If you can’t stop altering yourself then just stop! TSG Official Website: tsg.endeavourfilms.com TSG Facebook Page: facebook.com/TSGPodcast. I hope that you come along for the ride, and share your story.
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Losing Yourself in Relationships I will admit that I am as guilty as the next person of changing who I am just to fit into the illusion of why my mate wants me to be. I cannot even count the number of times I have said or done something that was not I just to please, or attempt to please, the person I was with. This is one of the largest double-edged swords when it comes to relationships. How many times have you been faced with the words, “Your not who you used to be?” or “You are not the one I fell in love with.” well DUH! People change through experiences and relationships. Sometimes we make a conscious decision to change who we are, and at times this happens without us even being aware of it. For me it would happen in the most desperate of time. Most often when I was looking for love, or worse, trying to keep it. One day I woke up and decided that enough was enough. And after a very short attempt at getting back into the dating scene I realized that my decision was the right one. This podcast is dedicated to my stupidity when it came to altering me to fit what I thought someone else wanted. My Advice is you’re like this: Remember that they are with you because the met you! Not whom you think they want you to be! If you can’t stop altering yourself then just stop! TSG Official Website: tsg.endeavourfilms.com TSG Facebook Page: facebook.com/TSGPodcast. I hope that you come along for the ride, and share your story.
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