TheSingleGirl Podcast

It has been a year since I was last dating anyone for any period of time, On New Years Eve I reinstated my account on OkCupid and began online dating ... again! I finally went out on my first date. This is my story... Don’t forget to check us out on: Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/TSGPodcast Twitter: @tsg_podcast SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/tsgpodcast PodOmatic: http://thesinglegirl.podomatic.com Our Store: http://www.cafepress.com/thesinglegirlswag Curious as to what I look like? Check me out on FaceBook.com/ladyannika101

On New Years Eve I took the Initiative to get back in the mix and start online dating This is my story... Don’t forget to check us out on: Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/TSGPodcast Twitter: @tsg_podcast SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/tsgpodcast PodOmatic: http://thesinglegirl.podomatic.com Our Store: http://www.cafepress.com/thesinglegirlswag Curious as to what I look like? Check me out on FaceBook.com/ladyannika101

Yes it is that time of year again, Resolution Time where we tell ourselves that we are going to make changes to ourselves and our lives with the best of intentions. Then by January second we have blown them all and give up! Well not me I am a determined woman! Here is my list of resolutions in two categories, the first being everything that I will accomplish before the end of 2014. The second being a list of things that I would like to accomplish, but the jury is still out on. Anyway I hope you like and HAPPY NEW YEAR ! Check out the whole story on our Website: http://tsg.endeavourfilms.com Dont forget to check us out on: Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/TSGPodcast Twitter: @tsg_podcast SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/tsgpodcast PodOmatic: http://thesinglegirl.podomatic.com Our Store: http://www.cafepress.com/thesinglegirlswag

2013 was a pretty good year all things considered. Like every other year in my life there were ups and downs. To get the bad stuff out first so that I can end this on a good and positive note. I had to deal with some loss this year with the passing of my Great Aunt Margaret. She was my favorite aunt, and had been since she gave me a mini Tupperware set back in my early days. I always loved that gift and she never failed to disappoint. Unfortunately she lost her battle with Alzheimer’s this year and I was unable to attend her funeral and that made me really sad. I would have loved to say goodbye to my favorite aunt one last time, but on the bright side I have my memories of her, all the Sunday dinners I got to see her over the decades, and I still see a lot of her in my Cousin Gloria. I even had a horrid scare when my grandmother had an incident and nearly bleed to death thanks to her medications. Thank god she is much better! Check out the rest of this article on our website: http://tsg.endeavourfilms.com Dont forget to check us out on: Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/TSGPodcast Twitter: @tsg_podcast SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/tsgpodcast PodOmatic: http://thesinglegirl.podomatic.com Our Store: http://www.cafepress.com/thesinglegirlswag

Today I am doing something diffrent. I am reading a story that I posted on the blog over the holiday. I find it amusing and I hope you do to. If you would like to read along check it out here: http://tsg.endeavourfilms.com/2013/12/single-christmas-true-tale/ Dont forget to check us out on: Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/TSGPodcast Twitter: @tsg_podcast SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/tsgpodcast PodOmatic: http://thesinglegirl.podomatic.com Our Store: http://www.cafepress.com/thesinglegirlswag

My First ever guest, My daughter Rose! Today I sat down and held a conversation with my daughter. It was quite interesting and we discuss everything from Joey Graceffa, gaming, and school cliques.

Wow! It has been a year since I had a date much less a boyfriend. I have to admit that I am a much more productive as a person without a relationship than I am with one. This is something that is kind of a catch twenty-two, or the preverbal double-edged sword. However, When it comes to dating and going out I have realized that internet dating is the new “Meat Market” Most people are looking for short term, friends with benefits, and one nighters, not what I am looking for at all. On top of this lets talk about the approach starting with game versus honesty, The number one complaint I hear from guys is about how women turn psycho on them. For one behind every psycho chick is a guy that is lying, cheating or running game. Guys, if you want to keep that girl in normal mode just be honest! If every girl you date turns into a psycho it is obviously something that you are doing wrong. We are not stupid, we know when something is up, when your not being honest. So come along on this ride for a conversation on guys and dating.

I have reached that point after my mothers passing that I can, during this holiday season; start to let go of her possessions. Not sure if this is growth on my part or what but come along and listen to my story. The content is a little heavy and I get a little emotional, but hey, we are all human after all... Right? http://tsg.endeavourfilms.com

In this podcast I talk about my transition from unhealthy thin chick, to Thick chick then to healthy thin chick with the help of a diet plan, documentaries, and some fortunate events. Disclaimer, I am not a doctor, what I did to lose my weight worked for me and may not work for you! Seek the advice of your doctor before starting any weight loss program, Search within your self for the reasons why you eat the way you do, and find something that works for you. You are not going to find your perfect body in a pill or fly by night diet fad Get off your ass and go for a walk. That is where it starts! Also check out my post, Thick Chick-Thin Chick on the TSG official Website http://tsg.endeavourfilms.com

Hell For the holidays… Yes this episode is titled Hell for the holidays, I have in my life had some notorious holiday get-together’s and this year the family argument was nearly launched over something that could have been taken wrong. Come along for the ride and listen as I explain just how imperfect I truly am. Done forget to check out our website at http://tsg.endeavourfilms.com/2013/11/hell-holidays/ read about my holiday hell and let us know your story.

Yeah, odds are you know someone that fits that description. So I send this podcast out into the world in hopes that someone out there has some advice on how to handle these types of people. I have a friend that I dearly care for that is putting herself through it to the point that I don’t answer her calls any more. I once thought that this made me a poor friend but to be honest, enough is enough. How do I handle this type of situation? Goto the TSG website and respond to the blog post “Ever the Victim” and let me know what you would do or shoot me an e-Mail at [email protected]

Losing Yourself in Relationships I will admit that I am as guilty as the next person of changing who I am just to fit into the illusion of why my mate wants me to be. I cannot even count the number of times I have said or done something that was not I just to please, or attempt to please, the person I was with. This is one of the largest double-edged swords when it comes to relationships. How many times have you been faced with the words, “Your not who you used to be?” or “You are not the one I fell in love with.” well DUH! People change through experiences and relationships. Sometimes we make a conscious decision to change who we are, and at times this happens without us even being aware of it. For me it would happen in the most desperate of time. Most often when I was looking for love, or worse, trying to keep it. One day I woke up and decided that enough was enough. And after a very short attempt at getting back into the dating scene I realized that my decision was the right one. This podcast is dedicated to my stupidity when it came to altering me to fit what I thought someone else wanted. My Advice is you’re like this: Remember that they are with you because the met you! Not whom you think they want you to be! If you can’t stop altering yourself then just stop! TSG Official Website: tsg.endeavourfilms.com TSG Facebook Page: facebook.com/TSGPodcast. I hope that you come along for the ride, and share your story.

My First Ever Podcast! YAY ME! Who is TheSingleGirl? Well I am Jennifer, a twice divorced Ex-military wife, and mother of one. One day my Ex decided that he wanted a divorce, Yes it was kind of out of the blue, but instead of curling up in bed and medicating myself to death while my life crumbled around my ears I got off my fanny and went out into the world and got my life! Why a podcast on this subject? Well, Relationships, much less breakups and divorces, don’t come with a manual that you can get wisdom from, not to mention most relationship experts are full of it, and most importantly I am not trying to sell you anything! Why am I special? Well, I am living it right here, and right now! I am simply living my life, making mistakes, and enjoying every triumph as I go along. I don’t have a PHD; I am not a psychologist! I am simply one woman who is eking out an existence one single day at a time. Rest assured that I am not going to tell you, “What you are doing is wrong,” and I most certainly am not going to tell you how to live your life. Instead, I am going to tell you my story and let you take from it what you want; and hope that you find your own way through singledom, through every hair pulling, nail biting, chocolate eating minute of it. I want to swap stories through my blog tsg.endeavourfilms.com, and my Facebook Page: facebook.com/TSGPodcast. I hope that you come along for the ride, and share your story. TheSingleGirl is not however just for women, It is open to all, gay, straight, and BI, Male or Female. We are after all human and can still learn from others.