Love Doesn't Keep Score

Did you know that love doesn't keep score? In this recording I discuss the harmful effects of keeping score in a relationship. This is part 9 of a series entitled "Love Is..." from 1 Corinthians 13, the famous love chapter in the Bible. 1 Corinthians 13:5 says that love does not keep a record of wrongs. Join me as I explain how resentment can build over time, and as I provide four suggestions for curbing the habit of holding onto past hurts. These include confronting issues calmly, allowing for effective apologies, seeking God's assistance for forgiveness, and going through the process of forgiveness. Alongside these, I discuss the four R's of an effective apology - Responsibility, Remorse, Repentance, and Request forgiveness. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:02 Understanding the Problem: Keeping Score in Relationships 01:13 Biblical Perspective on Love and Forgiveness 01:45 The Damaging Effects of Keeping Score 02:29 Four Suggestions to Stop Keeping Records of Wrongs 05:16 The Process of Forgiveness 06:26 Rebuilding Trust in Relationships 06:55 Conclusion: Letting Go of Past Hurts 07:53 Promotion of the Book and Personal Coaching 08:38 Final Blessings and Farewell To get a copy of my book, Turn it Up! how to have the lifelong marriage that your really want for only $3.75 for a digital copy or $4.99 for paperback (that's a 75% discount) go to www.turnitup.coach/75 Also to book a free Clarity Call, go to www.calendly.com/kellydupee