Love in Five Dimensions (and Why I'll Never Again Settle for Less)

Yes, I said five dimensions. Stay with me — you'll understand soon.Here's what nobody tells you about intimacy: we mistake it for vibes. And vibes are deceiving. You can vibe with someone for years and never actually be known by them. So what does it look like when someone loves all of you — even the invisible parts?I'm pulling from almost 32 years of marriage to my very reliable cup of Earl Grey (I'm the verb, he's the tea — it'll make sense, I promise). And I'm not giving you the sanitized version, because that's not what we do here. We walked through some genuinely hard seasons to get to this kind of love, and I'm telling you what we found on the other side.And to my neurodivergent people — there's something in this one especially for you.Don't miss this: Philip and I are going live this Thursday (June 11 at 7pm CST) for a Going Yellow (Can the Mellow) night of questions and answers — a real, honest, organic conversation about marriage and the hard seasons.  Just find me @barefacedgirl on Facebook. Come as you are.Amber Weigand-Buckley is an Amazon #1 bestselling and multi-award-winning author, podcaster, and the founding editor and art director of the multi-award-winning Leading Hearts magazine. She's the #shortyellowpencilgirl living in a neurotypical world — navigating life with a beehive brain, a lot of sticky notes, and an unwavering belief that God wired her exactly right.Host of #RandomDevoThoughts — where she unpacks the Jesus heart from the ADHD mind — Amber brings raw, relatable, and often hilarious insight to faith, mental health, and neurodivergent life. She's also co-host of Coffee Chat with Amber & Lisa.Her newly released book, #SisterhoodoftheShortYellowPencils: Mental Health Mayhem, One Sticky Note at a Time, is out now — a humor-packed, gut-punch honest look at her own mental health journey that's equal parts laugh-out-loud and life-changing.Follow her @barefacedgirl and @shortyellowpencilRX for the real, the raw, and the ridiculous.