Magenge, We Need To Talk with Melusi Tshabalala

Send us Fan MailIn this episode we connect unpack the hilarious but inspiring book Magenge, We Need To Talk authored by Melusi Tshabalala.We explore his open and honest approach in his writing style and why he felt the need to reach out to men by sharing some of his struggles and observations throughout his life. Melusi also shares some of his upcoming projects outside of Magenge and how he plans to leave a lasting legacy for generations to come. Melusi Tshabalala is an author, speaker, social and creative entrepreneur with a career spanning over 20 years in the advertising industry.  Please don't forget to Subscribe to gain access to all our podcasts. If you enjoy the show please share it with friends and family to help us grow and be part of our brother's evolution as men . Thank you for your support.Topics we cover on the show:01:32 - Melusi's passion for writing sparked by background and specializing in advertising and copywriting,02:32 - The language & feel of Magenge, We Need To Talk & inspiration from personal experience and conversations with friends,05:34 - The consequences of living life without a plan or consideration for your actions and how they affect other people,11:03 - joking around and taking jabs at our friends but also creating the "safe space" for them to be honest about their feelings towards some of the things we take lightly in circles,12:53 - working towards success but also being preparing for the worst, what's your plan?15:00 - helping our friends in times of need and adding value beyond beers, parties and sports chats,17:00 - men spending time in large groups without really connecting on a personal level and getting to know each other,19:20 - Sometimes we need our friends to laugh at our pain and help us soften the blow when dealing with some difficult situations in our lives,21:15 - understanding that our traumas and burdens are not the same and knowing when to seek professional help,  25:40 - who are you without the external things you rely on to define yourself?28:30 - the value of speaking to elders and people who raised you but also realizing they might have limited experience in giving advise about other issues,34:45 - encouraging young boys to befriend girls from an early age so they can see them as human beings and not just people you need something from, 41:37 - the importance of identifying you own issues, insecurities and issues,43:50 - the perception that South African men don't listen or care about certain issues because they choose to work on themselves in private,53:30 - expanding outside of men to speak to young kids and teens about social ills, and venturing into the eatery/restaurant business. Recommended links:Twitter: @EverydayZuluInstagram: MshengumelWebsite: Everyday SpeakWebsite: Melusis's Everyday ZuluFollow us & share your thoughts on the topic:Website: https://www.thenetworkingcompany.co.zaFacebook:  @MnannedUpConvosInstagram: @MannedUp_ConvosTwitter: @MannedUp_ConvosHope you are enjoying the conversation so far. Remember to take note of things that stand out to you while listening and take a moment to reflect in your own time or discuss this with some friends over some drinks, a meal or relaxing activity of your choice. Thank you for tuning into Manned Up Conversations. Please subscribe to help grow the platform, you can also find us on YouTube if you prefer video and don't forget to share your comments, insights or questions.Support the showSignup: Substack blog: https://substack.com/@mannedupconversationsFeedspot Listing:We've been selected by FeedSpot as one of the Top 70 Role Models Podcasts, Top 70 South Africa Men's Podcasts and Top 14 Men Psychology Podcasts on the web. Checkout the lists below;https://podcast.feedspot.com/role_models_podcasts/https://podcast.feedspot.com/south_africa_mens_podcasts/https://podcast.feedspot.com/men_psychology_podcasts/Donate To Our Campai...