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EPISODE · Mar 9, 2026 · 33 MIN

Magnetic Intimacy: Better Sex Than The Honeymoon Phase

from Put Yourself First · host Kat Horrocks

JOIN CHERISHED >> ⁠https://www.khorrocks.com/cherished⁠⁠We’ve been sold the lie that the honeymoon phase is the peak. That the best s3x you’ll ever have happens at the beginning.That once you move in together, build a life, get busy, have responsibilities… it’s unrealistic to expect that same heat.I don’t accept that.In this final episode of the Cherished Woman Codes mini-series, we’re diving into Code 3: Magnetic Intimacy.Inside this episode, we explore:• Why emotional intimacy is the foundation for s3xual intimacy• How over-functioning, resentment and people-pleasing quietly kill desire• The difference between “getting off” and actually connecting• Why outsourcing your pleasure to your partner drains polarity• How pleasure practices regulate your nervous system and increase libido• Body image, low libido and real-life seasons of intimacy• How to talk about sex without it feeling awkward or clinical• Why better sex makes you want more s3x• Why the honeymoon phase is not the peak - it’s the training groundI also share vulnerably about my own journey into deeper orgasm, safety and opening in intimacy - and what it actually took to feel fully cracked open and connected in my relationship.🌹 Doors To Cherished Close THIS FRIDAY!Cherished is a 12-week feminine embodiment experience for women in good relationships who want to:• Feel supported and emotionally met• Reignite intimacy and desire• Speak their needs without guilt or drama• Deepen connection in a grounded, grown-woman wayDoors close Friday 13th MarchWe begin Monday 16th MarchThere are just 4 spaces left!Join here >> ⁠⁠https://www.khorrocks.com/cherished⁠

JOIN CHERISHED >> ⁠https://www.khorrocks.com/cherished⁠⁠We’ve been sold the lie that the honeymoon phase is the peak. That the best s3x you’ll ever have happens at the beginning.That once you move in together, build a life, get busy, have responsibilities… it’s unrealistic to expect that same heat.I don’t accept that.In this final episode of the Cherished Woman Codes mini-series, we’re diving into Code 3: Magnetic Intimacy.Inside this episode, we explore:• Why emotional intimacy is the foundation for s3xual intimacy• How over-functioning, resentment and people-pleasing quietly kill desire• The difference between “getting off” and actually connecting• Why outsourcing your pleasure to your partner drains polarity• How pleasure practices regulate your nervous system and increase libido• Body image, low libido and real-life seasons of intimacy• How to talk about sex without it feeling awkward or clinical• Why better sex makes you want more s3x• Why the honeymoon phase is not the peak - it’s the training groundI also share vulnerably about my own journey into deeper orgasm, safety and opening in intimacy - and what it actually took to feel fully cracked open and connected in my relationship.🌹 Doors To Cherished Close THIS FRIDAY!Cherished is a 12-week feminine embodiment experience for women in good relationships who want to:• Feel supported and emotionally met• Reignite intimacy and desire• Speak their needs without guilt or drama• Deepen connection in a grounded, grown-woman wayDoors close Friday 13th MarchWe begin Monday 16th MarchThere are just 4 spaces left!Join here >> ⁠⁠https://www.khorrocks.com/cherished⁠

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JOIN CHERISHED >> ⁠https://www.khorrocks.com/cherished⁠⁠We’ve been sold the lie that the honeymoon phase is the peak. That the best s3x you’ll ever have happens at the beginning.That once you move in together, build a life, get busy, have...

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