Making Your EX the “Scapegoat" For Your Issues WON'T Help You

Breakups are painful, and when you’re in the middle of that hurt, it’s easy to turn your ex into the villain. It can feel like the only way to make sense of what happened, especially if they moved on fast, got cold, or did something that genuinely broke your trust.In this episode, we talk about why blaming your ex might feel comforting in the moment, but can quietly keep you stuck. Not because your ex’s choices were “okay,” but because healing gets harder when we refuse to look at our own patterns, blind spots, and what we tolerated, avoided, or didn’t address while we were in it.This conversation is about perspective, accountability, and what it really takes to move forward with clarity instead of carrying the same wounds into the next chapter.If this helped you, share it with someone who needs it, and subscribe so you’re notified when new episodes drop.Let’s get it. 🤙🏾