Matt Bays Is Living His Best Life

Some decisions can be the easiest to acknowledge and the hardest to implement. Matt Bays’ first memoir, LEATHER & LACE: A GAY MAN, LOST LOVE, AND A ROAD TRIP WITH HIS DEAD SISTER, chronicles his coming out story.His latest book utilizes his coaching expertise: HOW TO FIND AND KEEP A GAY MAN: 69 SPICY TIPS FOR LASTING LOVE (Sourcebooks, April 2026).Matt shares his journey of becoming.MATT BAYSWebsite: https://mattbays.me/Instagram TikTok YouTube Podcast KARA KAVENSKYWebsite: Kara Kavensky@karakavensky on Substack, FB, IG, LinkedIn and ThreadsReceive updates on Kara's new memoir release, TELL ME ABOUT JOYSponsored by: Adam Gibson Design and Remain Relevant, a corporate storytelling masterclassProduced by: Marilou MaroszOriginal music written and performed by: Adam W. GibsonCHAPTERS[01:10] Introduction - Matt Bays, author of HOW TO FIND AND KEEP A GAY MAN[03:52] LEATHER AND LACE and getting a "do-over" after divorce[08:03] Losing his sister and finding the courage to come out[11:06] But wait, there's more![14:46] Helping others, working as a life coach[15:55] Tips for coaching people to live fully[18:44] What is next for you?