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Jan 8, 2026 17 min

Money, Confidence and Changing the Rules

from The Self-ish Me Podcast Hosted by Kamila Turek

Talking about money can feel awkward, but honestly, it is one of the most empowering conversations we can have. In this episode I share how small mindset shifts can change the way we approach salary negotiations, and why understanding your value is key to shaping the career and life you want. We look at the real impact of the gender pay gap, the social norms that hold women back, and the practical steps you can take to feel more confident asking for what you deserve. I also open up about my own early mistakes, including the moment a friend’s simple question completely changed the way I see negotiation. This chat is all about encouragement, clarity and giving you tools you can use straight away. You deserve fair pay, real choice and a career that reflects your talent, and I hope this episode helps you take a step closer to that. Highlights: (01:36) Why money shapes more of our life choices than we realise (03:22) The moment I learned negotiating was even an option (05:40) Three reflection questions to understand your patterns (09:52) The social norms that quietly hold women back (12:18) Four practical strategies to negotiate with confidence (16:10) A reminder that your salary is not your worth Women Don't Ask | Princeton University Press Ask For A Raise? Most Women Hesitate : NPR Connect with Kamila: Insta (@self_is_me) • Instagram photos and videos LinkedIn Kamila Turek | LinkedIn

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