Most Men Do the Ritual. Almost None of Them Actually Live It with Dodge Feeler

Dodge Feeler is a telehealth founder, a father, and someone who has done a lot of living in a short amount of time. He went from being a hair restoration surgeon at 33 who thought he had already peaked, through a divorce, through the spiritual marketplace, through fatherhood, and out the other side with a very different set of priorities. In this conversation, he and Hector get into what it actually takes to stop cycling through healing modalities and start living the work. They talk about what fatherhood demands of you that nothing else will, why so many men confuse doing the ritual with being changed by it, and what it looks like to become a man your son actually learns something from. It is a raw and honest conversation that does not have a tidy conclusion, which is kind of the point.Chapters:(00:00:00) Welcome and What Is Real in Dodge's World Right Now(00:02:00) How Fatherhood Completely Rewires Your Brain and Priorities(00:08:00) Comfort as a Warning Sign and What It Means to Follow Your Calling(00:12:00) The Gap Between Doing the Ritual and Actually Living It(00:17:00) Teaching Your Kids to Regulate Before You Can Regulate Yourself(00:23:00) The Peptide Culture Trap and the Present Moment You Keep Missing(00:28:00) What Is the Spiritual Marketplace and Why It Keeps You Searching(00:34:00) What Being a Present Father Actually Looks Like Day to Day(00:40:00) Why We Are Failing to Bring Boys Into Manhood(00:47:00) Becoming the Man Your Son Will Point To SomedayLinks And Resources:WebsiteDodge Feeler on InstagramHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!