MOTHERHOOD: Female Friendship & Motherhood: Navigating Life Transitions, Nervous System Regulation, and Showing Grace in Every Season with Three Peas and a Pod | S06E45 episode artwork

EPISODE · Feb 24, 2026 · 1H 26M

MOTHERHOOD: Female Friendship & Motherhood: Navigating Life Transitions, Nervous System Regulation, and Showing Grace in Every Season with Three Peas and a Pod | S06E45

from Dirty Laundry with Ollie · host Olivia DeBoer

There is something sacred about female friendship and something stretching about it, too. In this ✨special✨collaboration with Three Peas and a Pod, we sit down for an honest, gentle conversation about how life transitions, especially entering motherhood, can quietly or loudly shift the rhythm of our friendships. What happens when one friend becomes a mom and the others do not? How do we stay connected when our nervous systems are fried, our identities are evolving, and our calendars look nothing alike?We talk about supporting new mothers, what it tangibly looks like to show up well, and how women in motherhood can extend grace back to their single or child-free friends. We also unpack the cultural urgency around nervous system regulation, the pressure to heal faster, and how enmeshment with our children can blur identity and friendship boundaries. This episode is honest, therapeutic, and full of encouragement for women navigating friendship transitions, postpartum life, identity shifts, and emotional regulation.Because maybe the question is not, Why has this friendship changed?Maybe it is, How can we love each other better in this season?NOTE: I have been learning SO much from Katy Rexing and her podcast, Within. Some of the ideas/ concepts I mentioned were learned from her. With that being said, I want to give credit where credit is due. I would HIGHLY recommend checking her out! On this episode of Dirty Laundry, we explore:How female friendships shift during motherhood and major life transitionsPractical ways to support a new mom, including meals, housework, and real emotional supportWhy our culture’s obsession with nervous system regulation can create more urgency than healingUnderstanding enmeshment in motherhood and how to maintain identity and healthy boundariesHow to extend grace, empathy, and emotional maturity to friends in different seasons of lifeIf you have ever felt the quiet grief of a changing friendship, the overwhelm of early motherhood, or the tension of loving someone whose life looks different than yours, this one will feel like a deep breath.Links: Dirty Laundry LinksThree Peas Friendship Book

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