Moving Past the Guilt and Shame of the Breakup

I really wish I had ended it sooner. I wish we could have made it work. How could I have been so stupid? Why didn't I see the signs? Did I even try? Any of this sound familiar? Breakups suck BIG TIME, right? Whether you're the breakup'er or the break-up'ee, it stings a little and A LOT. But, here's the good news, sis, there is life after the breakup. It may not feel like it while you're still in the thick of it, but you'll get past the guilt. You'll get past the shame. You'll smile again, you'll love again, you'll be loved again. Things end all the time -- your favorite show, your favorite sports season, your favorite holiday and yes, relationships end too. And you don't need to feel guilty or ashamed because of that.