My Ex Was Jailed for Coercive Control w/ Sammie

Sammie's ex became the first person in NSW to be jailed for coercive control. In this episode, she shares her powerful story, and gives us incredible insight into the realities of surviving in an abusive relationship.We get honest about:• How the relationship began, escalated, and ultimately led to Australia's first coercive control conviction in NSW• Why victims often return to abusive relationships, even when they know they should leave• Trauma bonds, how they form, and what it takes to break them• What family and friends saw from the outside, and how much was happening behind closed doors• Financial and sexual coercion, and why these forms of abuse are so often misunderstood• The difference between a healthy relationship and a coercively controlling one, even when the behaviours can look similar• Red flags to watch for in your own relationships and those around youEverything the relationship stole (and continues to steal) from her• Sam's reflections, and looking forwardMENTIONS: Listen to Hannah's Story here: https://open.spotify.com/show/2O1apWsHd8nGSYPeOuGg4x?si=oXifyrzYR4KI89Svk_OjPASUPPORT RESOURCES:Victims services counselling https://www.nsw.gov.au/legal-and-justice/information-for-victims-of-crime/victims-support-scheme/counsellingEscaping violence payment About the Programleavingviolenceprogram.org.auRent Choice Start safely NSW (search for your state's rental support)https://www.nsw.gov.au/departments-and-agencies/homes-nsw/social-housing-resources/rent-choice-start-safely1800 RESPECT | Counselling and information service for people affected by domestic, family, and sexual violenceLIFELINE | 13 11 14 | 24-hour telephone crisis support service in AustraliaBEYOND BLUE | 1300 22 4636SHOWNOTES:Get amongst it:Instagram: @pathologicallyhonestTikTok: @pathologicallyhonestYouTube: Pathologically HonestGeorgia: @god_worthy on all the thingsSammie: @sammieejade0Want to get Pathologically EVEN MORE Honest?Join us on Patreon for bonus unfiltered episodes, exclusive content, behind-the-scenes spirals, and community chats. One lucky listener a month wins a glorious merch pack! patreon.com/pathologicallyhonestGot a question, want to chat partnerships, or get pathologically honest with us?:Email us: [email protected]: https://pathologicallyhone.wixsite.com/ph-podThis episode was recorded on Gadigal Land. Always was, always will be, Aboriginal land.Monthly Patreon Merchandise Giveaway Terms and Conditions here or at https://pathologicallyhone.wixsite.com/ph-pod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.