My Journey of Birth Trauma, Secondary Infertility and Baby Loss

Before we begin, a gentle but important message. Across this podcast, we sometimes discuss experiences that may be difficult to hear, including themes that centre around trauma. These conversations are handled with care, but they can still be triggering or emotionally heavy. Please listen in a way that feels safe for you and take a pause or step away at any time if you need to. If anything you hear brings up difficult feelings, reaching out to someone you trust or seeking professional support can make a real difference.Roch shares her deeply personal journey through pregnancy, birth trauma, and secondary infertility, highlighting the emotional toll, societal pressures, and the need for community support. This candid conversation offers insights into living with grief, navigating medical challenges, and finding strength in vulnerability.TopicsBirth trauma and its lasting impactSecondary infertility and emotional resilienceThe role of societal expectations and mediaThe importance of community and support networksChapters00:00 Introduction to the Journey01:06 The Unique Story of Trauma and Healing04:03 The Birth Experience and Its Aftermath07:26 Navigating Secondary Infertility11:04 The Emotional Toll of Uncertainty13:49 Guilt and Shame in Parenthood17:04 Isolation and the Need for Connection19:54 The Complexity of Emotions22:54 The Role of Healthcare Professionals26:08 Living with Hypervigilance28:59 Returning to Normalcy and Future Aspirations29:28 Navigating Secondary Infertility32:36 The Emotional Toll of Fertility Treatment35:19 Balancing Work and Personal Struggles38:46 The Search for Connection and Community40:46 Living with Grief and Acceptance43:38 Finding Your Voice and Setting Boundaries50:07 The Journey Towards Building a Supportive CommunityResourcesSimon Scott-Nelson - Podcast Host - https://www.around-table.comECMO Treatment Explained - https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/ECMO/Support for Birth Trauma and Infertility - https://www.birthtrauma.org.uk/KeywordsBirth trauma, secondary infertility, pregnancy loss, mental health, support groups, emotional resilience, medical journey, women's health, trauma recovery, community supportWe are a peer-connection space focused on shared storytelling, not a medical service or crisis centre. If you are in immediate need, we recommend reaching out to professional emergency services.