My Journey of Birth Trauma, Secondary Infertility and Baby Loss

Before we begin, a gentle but important message. Across this podcast, we sometimes discuss experiences that may be difficult to hear, including themes that centre around trauma. These conversations are handled with care, but they can still be triggering or emotionally heavy. Please listen in a way that feels safe for you and take a pause or step away at any time if you need to. If anything you hear brings up difficult feelings, reaching out to someone you trust or seeking professional support can make a real difference. Roch shares her deeply personal journey through pregnancy, birth trauma, and secondary infertility, highlighting the emotional toll, societal pressures, and the need for community support. This candid conversation offers insights into living with grief, navigating medical challenges, and finding strength in vulnerability. Topics Birth trauma and its lasting impact Secondary infertility and emotional resilience The role of societal expectations and media The importance of community and support networks Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Journey 01:06 The Unique Story of Trauma and Healing 04:03 The Birth Experience and Its Aftermath 07:26 Navigating Secondary Infertility 11:04 The Emotional Toll of Uncertainty 13:49 Guilt and Shame in Parenthood 17:04 Isolation and the Need for Connection 19:54 The Complexity of Emotions 22:54 The Role of Healthcare Professionals 26:08 Living with Hypervigilance 28:59 Returning to Normalcy and Future Aspirations 29:28 Navigating Secondary Infertility 32:36 The Emotional Toll of Fertility Treatment 35:19 Balancing Work and Personal Struggles 38:46 The Search for Connection and Community 40:46 Living with Grief and Acceptance 43:38 Finding Your Voice and Setting Boundaries 50:07 The Journey Towards Building a Supportive Community Resources Simon Scott-Nelson - Podcast Host - https://www.around-table.com ECMO Treatment Explained - https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/ECMO/ Support for Birth Trauma and Infertility - https://www.birthtrauma.org.uk/ Keywords Birth trauma, secondary infertility, pregnancy loss, mental health, support groups, emotional resilience, medical journey, women's health, trauma recovery, community support We are a peer-connection space focused on shared storytelling, not a medical service or crisis centre. If you are in immediate need, we recommend reaching out to professional emergency services.