"My Kid Is So Rude!"; 3 powerful ways to respond without shame or punishment

“You’re stupid!” “I hate you!” “Give me it – NOW!” If your child says things like this, you’re not alone — and you’re not doing anything wrong. But the truth is, hearing those words can be heartbreaking, especially when you’re trying to raise a kind and respectful human with good manners.In this powerful episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill shares why rudeness shows up so often — particularly with the people our children feel safest with — and what we can do to guide them without shouting, shaming or punishment.You’ll learn:Why kids are rude (hint: it’s rarely personal)How to stay calm and hold your boundaryThe gentle replay technique that helps children practise respectful communicationWhat to do when they’re rude to a nanny or grandparentAnd how to handle those painful words: “I hate you.”Time Stamps00:00 - Introduction and personal anecdotes about rude behavior in children01:00 - Overview of the episode's structure03:00 - Explanation of why children are rude05:00 - First strategy – Staying calm and not reacting07:00 - Second strategy – Recognizing emotions without shaming09:00 - Third strategy – Asking for a polite 'replay'11:00 - Handling rudeness towards nannies or grandparents13:00 - Question of the week – Responding to 'I hate you'15:00 - Final thoughts and resourcesThis is not about raising perfect kids. It’s about helping them express big feelings without hurting others — and giving you the tools to respond with confidence.✨ Ready to shift the tone in your home? Grab Camilla’s free guide: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/justlisten📩 Or book a free discovery call if you want personalised support. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call🎧 If this episode helped, please rate it and share it with a friend or your child’s caregiver. Let’s spread the message of love and boundaries!When you're ready, here are some ways Camilla can help you further.Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child? Wish they came with a manual?📞 Book a free discovery call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/CHAT📰 Join Camilla's weekly newsletter for tips, insights and support straight to your inbox every Wednesday: https://www.myparentingsolutions.com/newsletterFollow Camilla on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration: https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/