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EPISODE · Aug 30, 2025 · 19 MIN

My Partner Needs HELP (High SER in relationship with Low SER)

from Boundaries & Grace with Taylor Chandler · host Taylor Chandler

Are you growing as a person but feeling like you’re growing apart from your partner? In this video, I break down the High-Low Dynamic—what happens when someone with high self-esteem, high energy, and high responsibility (High SER) pairs with someone who is struggling with low self-esteem, low energy, or low responsibility (Low SER).I’m Taylor Chandler, a licensed marriage and family therapist and personal development coach. Using my SER framework, I’ll explain why this dynamic creates tension in relationships, dating, and marriage—and what you can do about it.We’ll cover:-Signs you’re in a High-Low relationship-How the H-L dynamic starts-Two paths forwardThis advice applies whether you’re dating, in a long-term relationship, or married. My goal is to help you become the best version of yourself and build the best possible relationship.If you’re ready to do the work—individually or as a couple—use the link below to apply for a consultation.👉 Work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/jqyMCsr3👉 More tools + writings: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR:🖥  Explore My Practice-- https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/💬 Work With Me -- Request a consultation👁️ Weekly Relationship Insights: -- Subscribe to Substack📱Follow on Instagram -- @iamtaylorchandlerDisclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy.#Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #Relationship Dynamics #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice

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Are you growing as a person but feeling like you’re growing apart from your partner? In this video, I break down the High-Low Dynamic—what happens when someone with high self-esteem, high energy, and high responsibility (High SER) pairs with someone who is struggling with low self-esteem, low energy, or low responsibility (Low SER). I’m Taylor Chandler, a licensed marriage and family therapist and personal development coach. Using my SER framework, I’ll explain why this dynamic creates tensi...

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