No One Gets to Drive This But You with Terri Brown: Grief Series Ep. 5

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Inner Spark Grief Series, I sit down with Terri Brown, an LSCSW psychotherapist with 39 years of experience in death and dying, critical incident response, and grief counseling — including work with Kroger's critical incident teams and 12 years serving soldiers returning from Iraq and Afghanistan with the Department of Defense.Terri has personally walked alongside me through my own journey, and in this conversation we get into why grief is so rarely talked about — and why that silence leaves so many people feeling alone in it.We talk about:Terri's beach metaphor for grief — the waves that lap gently at your feet, and the ones that swamp you without warningWhy "I'm so sorry for your loss" isn't the comfort we think it is, and what to say insteadThe "grief grocery bag" — a simple, tangible way to show up for someone grievingWhy there's no timeline, no order, and no wrong way to grieve — even 20 years laterWhat happens after the casseroles stop and everyone goes homeHow to actually mean it when you say "I'm here for you"Why grief and joy aren't opposites — and how humor becomes part of healingTerri's own story about her dad, and the moment they still laugh about todayA line worth sitting with: "This is your process. This is your journey, and it's your timeline. No one gets to drive this but you."If this episode brought something up for you, please know — grief doesn't need to be earned, explained, or timed. You're allowed to be exactly where you are.If you found something that sparked you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it today.You can find me at:https://www.instagram.com/cataton/https://www.facebook.com/casey.taton/You can find what sparks me at:https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1AgeRtyojY/https://www.instagram.com/lmbdcelebrations/Music by: Jason and Ashley ScheuflerArtwork by:  https://www.instagram.com/graphx_ink/