#notallmen

Apparently, the theme this fall is the fall of civilization. So naturally, we’re talking about men. This week, we’re officially retiring “not all men” and asking a much more important question: what are the good men actually doing about the bad ones? We get into the culture that teaches women to protect themselves instead of teaching men not to harm them, what it means to raise boys who understand consent and emotional responsibility, the way men and women are socialized completely differently—and why we’re done rationalizing, explaining away, or making excuses for harmful behavior. Plus: female intuition, dysfunctional relationship playbooks, throwing emotional spaghetti at your friends, and why sometimes being a good man means being willing to make other men uncomfortable. Season 3 said the gloves were coming off. We meant it. Enjoying the podcast? Help us expand our reach by sharing with your friends and joining us live on Instagram every Friday at 8:30am EST for the recording!