On Love & Romance for the ADHDer

Shout out to consistency!In this episode, I take a look at love, romance, and safety from the perspective of an ADHDer, who’s been out of the dating scene for some years. Inspired by ADHD content creator Brittany Elizabeth, I challenged the old adage of love feeling like “butterflies” and called flag on the play. Tying those butterflies to some of my most harmful experiences, I share my journey to how I’m reframing dating, what good feels like in a potential partner, and how certain friendships serve as a great foundation to write a new intimate path. Chapters and Timestamps00:00 Welcome to Muse Lab00:41 Consistency and Creativity02:05 ADHD Brain Downloads09:24 Dating as a Challenge14:54 Butterflies Are a Red Flag16:44 Family Roots and Cycles24:24 Transactional Love Lessons31:15 Toxic Relationships and Safety38:00 Rewriting Dating Patterns41:06 Words Create Reality42:58 Quantum Leap Through Speech44:22 Dating Prophecies Come True47:04 ADHD Reframing Identity54:43 Butterflies Versus Safety55:29 Defining Safe Love01:04:52 Raising the Bar Saying No01:11:01 Butterflies Are Moths01:13:57 Onward to the Next Adventure___________________________________________________For more information or to collab, email [email protected] Learn more about my work hereSign up for weekly musingsJoin the conversation Instagram | Threads