One Bold Extroverted Move To Make Introverted Lives Easier! Expectation is what creates friction

So many of us in this arena of life are learned extroverts with the same anxieties and worries as everyone else. We just had Role Models that were more outgoing and had better social skills. And very important! We’ve just developed love for ourselves where we can stand proudly in who we are. When you learn how to state who you are and why you love being someone who gets to know people individually or why you love nerdy things like myself or what ever. two things happen. First, there are no expectations for you to be in the middle of the group being loud, or being anyone you don’t want to be. second, you tell people without saying “this is who I am, take it or leave it, but I love it” there is nothing anyone can say at that point. Even if someone made fun of you, you already stated that you love that part about you, so it’s a quick fuck off to them and they look like the jerk. Learn to love the shit out of yourself and stand in that!