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EPISODE · Apr 23, 2026 · 29 MIN

One of The Biggest Relationship Killers: Blame Shifting

from Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha · host Ken Claytor and Tabatha Claytor

Send us Fan MailWe get real about how blame shifting turns a struggling marriage into a dead-end and why owning your part is the first move toward change. We connect Scripture, self-awareness, and practical habits so you can stop living as the victim in every story and start growing on purpose. • why every struggling relationship has blame shifting somewhere • what “own your part” looks like even when you feel 95% right • becoming the hero in the home instead of matching foolishness • what blame shifting sounds like in everyday arguments • Adam and Eve as the first blame shift • how victim mentality keeps people stuck • a candid talk on emotional abuse claims and getting wise counsel • the role of self-awareness and security in hard conversations • practical steps like reflecting, apologizing right, and seeking accountability • repentance as change not just confession Make sure that you share. If you're new to our podcast, hit the subscribe button. If you're on YouTube, hit the alert icon. Go over to Kenandtabatha.com. Get your ticket now. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/1875Support Our Ministry: https://myalivechurch.org/giveConnect with us:- Website:https://www.kenclaytor.comhttps://www.tabathaclaytor.comhttps://www.myalivechurch.org- Socials:Instagram -https://www.instagram.com/kenclaytor/https://www.instagram.com/tabathaclaytor/https://www.instagram.com/myalivechurch/TikTok-@Ken_Claytor@Tabathaclaytor@myalivechurchFacebook-https://www.facebook.com/PastorKenClaytorhttps://www.facebook.com/pastortabathaclaytorhttps://www.facebook.com/myalivechurch- Ask us questions: i...

Send us Fan Mail We get real about how blame shifting turns a struggling marriage into a dead-end and why owning your part is the first move toward change. We connect Scripture, self-awareness, and practical habits so you can stop living as the victim in every story and start growing on purpose. • why every struggling relationship has blame shifting somewhere • what “own your part” looks like even when you feel 95% right • becoming the hero in the home instead of matching f...

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