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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha
by Ken Claytor and Tabatha Claytor
Hey, what’s up fam. We’re Ken and Tabatha, and we’re so glad you found our YouTube page. We always pray, “God, let the people who need this channel find this channel.” So, if you’re here, you’re an answer to prayer. We have one major goal. We want to help you grow in love with God and grow in love with the people God has placed in your life. The way we do that is simple. We take what we’ve learned and we share it. We’ve been married for 26 years, and we always jokingly say it’s been the best 24 years of our lives. The first two years were pretty bad. We had all the classic problems: silent treatments, weaponized sex, a lack of communication skills, financial pressures, and more. But we learned tools and principles from God’s Word that helped us turn our marriage around. Now we’re happy to say we’re best friends. That’s why people ask us all the time, “Do you have a special anointing for marriage?” And our answer is always the same. No, we just have tools.
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When You Get Better Your Marriage Gets Better
Send us Fan Mail Marriage advice is everywhere, but most of it avoids the hard truth: you can’t “fix” a relationship you refuse to grow inside of. After 27 years together, we’ve learned that the turning point isn’t a perfect partner or a perfect season, it’s a better you. We talk candidly about…
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Beware of the Rage Bait | Why Anger Is Controlling So Many People
Send us Fan Mail Rage bait is not an accident, it’s a strategy. We’re living in a moment where anger gets rewarded, fear gets monetized, and the loudest reactions rise to the top of your feed. Ken and Tabatha Claytor dig into why so many of us feel emotionally “on” all the time and how that...
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Godly Prosperity vs. Ungodly Prosperity - Understanding the Purpose of Prosperity
Send us Fan Mail Prosperity can sound like a scam word until you separate what’s biblical from what’s flesh. We’re not interested in hype or debates. We want God’s heart, because blessing, increase, provision, stewardship, and generosity are all over the Bible, and we don’t want people throwing…
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Good Sex Starts With Good Communication
Send us Fan Mail Sex gets awkward fast when nobody feels safe enough to tell the truth and that silence can slowly turn lovers into roommates. We’re Ken and Tabatha Claytor, married 27 years, and we’re putting language to what so many couples experience but rarely say out loud: good sex in…
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Let Him Lead. A Call to Godly Wives.
Send us Fan Mail “Let him lead” can sound like a fight waiting to happen, especially if you’ve seen leadership used as control or heard submission preached like silence. We take a different route. From the jump, we talk about real marriage pain, the slow buildup of offense, and why we refuse to...
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How to Stop Bumping Heads With Others
Send us Fan Mail The conflict is not always about the conflict. Sometimes it is pride trying to stay in control, old wounds looking for a target, or a tone that makes people stop hearing your idea and start bracing for impact. If you keep “bumping heads” with your spouse, coworkers, family, or...
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How Resentment Slowly Destroys a Marriage
Send us Fan Mail Resentment doesn’t usually sound like yelling. It sounds like “I’m fine,” feels like distance on the couch, and shows up as keeping score in your head. Ken and Tabatha Claytor get real about how resentment slowly destroys a marriage, not through one huge betrayal, but through…
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Understanding the Fear of the Lord
Send us Fan Mail Casual faith sounds harmless until it starts reshaping your conscience. We sit down and talk honestly about the fear of the Lord and why it is not panic, paranoia, or an angry-God mindset. For us, it’s reverence, awe, and a real awareness of God’s holiness that shows up most in...
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Why Are So Many Good Marriages Quietly Falling Apart?
Send us Fan Mail A marriage can be stable on paper and still feel strangely far apart at home. We’re talking about the slow drift: the subtle, gradual disconnect that happens when life gets loud, schedules take over, and the relationship starts running on autopilot. If you’ve ever thought…
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The Most Common Lies Satan Uses — And How to Break Free
Send us Fan Mail The most dangerous prisons don’t have bars, they have beliefs. Ken and Tabatha Claytor go straight at the core of spiritual warfare: the lies that shape how we see ourselves, how we see God, and what we think is possible. We talk about deliverance in a way that’s both biblical…
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Your Sons & Daughters Will Prophesy
Send us Fan Mail Your words are doing more than describing your life. They’re shaping it. Ken and Tabatha Claytor dig into the Scripture “your sons and your daughters shall prophesy” and make a bold case that prophecy isn’t reserved for a select few with a title. It’s a Spirit-empowered way for...
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How To Love Your Spouse When You Do Not Like Them
Send us Fan Mail What do you do when you still love your spouse, but you honestly do not like them right now? We go straight into the real-life stuff couples actually fight about: lights left on, shoes where they “shouldn’t” be, house rules, and that moment when a simple reminder suddenly sounds...
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Five Practical Ways To Care For Your Husband With Faith And Respect
Send us Fan Mail What if the next breakthrough in your marriage is something simple you can do this week at home, not a huge speech or a dramatic reset? We sit down for a Valentine’s week conversation that gets practical fast, sharing five real-world ways a wife can care for her husband in a way...
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The Number One Thing Wives Need
Send us Fan Mail What if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage is waiting on the other side of real leadership at home? Ken and Tabatha Claytor sit down for a direct, honest conversation aimed at husbands, future husbands, and anyone who wants a healthier Christian marriage. We talk to the…
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God’s Design For Sex
Send us Fan Mail Most couples don’t break because they stop loving each other. They break because they stop feeling connected, and one of the fastest places that disconnection shows up is sexual intimacy. We go straight at the uncomfortable question many married Christians whisper but rarely say...
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How to Fight for Your Marriage Together
Send us Fan Mail What if the tension in your home isn’t proof you married the wrong person, but proof you’re fighting the wrong enemy? We get real about spiritual warfare in marriage, and we start with a mindset shift that can change everything: it’s not husband versus wife, it’s two people...
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How To Save A Marriage With Better Thoughts
Send us Fan Mail A marriage can look fine on the outside while quietly getting torn down from the inside by one habit: a critical inner dialogue. We get honest about what happens when you replay a moment, assume the worst, and start building a case against the person you love. If you’ve ever...
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Why Keeping A List Of Wrongs Kills Intimacy And How To Let It Go
Send us Fan Mail Keeping a mental list of your spouse’s mistakes feels like self-protection, but it quietly turns your home into a courtroom. When every argument pulls out old receipts, intimacy dies, progress feels impossible, and “I forgive you” starts sounding like a trap. We get honest about...
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Seven Biblical Steps To Turn A Bad Marriage Around
Send us Fan Mail A bad marriage can feel like you’re trapped in the same house with a stranger, stuck between “I don’t want to leave” and “I can’t do this anymore.” We go straight at that tension with humility and authority, because we’ve lived it. After 26 years of marriage and a rough start…
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How To Heal Emotional Wounds Before They Harden
Send us Fan Mail Hurt has a way of sneaking into every relationship, and if we don’t deal with it, it doesn’t just fade. It hardens. Ken and Tabitha Claytor get honest about how emotional wounds, unmet expectations, betrayal, and disappointment can quietly turn into bitterness that reshapes your...
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Spiritual Warfare 101 | How The Enemy Targets Believers And How To Fight Back
Send us Fan Mail Some battles don’t start in your schedule, your bank account, or your relationships. They start as a thought you never challenge, a fear you keep feeding, or an offense you refuse to release. We talk about spiritual warfare with a steady head and a strong spine: not blaming the...
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Breaking Ungodly Soul Ties | How to Break Soul Ties & Be FREE!
Send us Fan Mail We name the difference between healthy and unhealthy soul ties, then get honest about why certain relationships keep pulling us back even when they hurt. We walk through spiritual and practical steps to break ungodly connections and close with a renouncing prayer for healing and...
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David's Heart | Developing a Heart That God Promotes
Send us Fan Mail We talk about why God promotes trustworthy people over simply gifted people, using David’s life to show what a heart after God actually looks like under pressure. We unpack honor, repentance, private integrity, and worship as the habits that keep your heart clean when influence...
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How To Heal A Broken Marriage
Send us Fan Mail A marriage can look “fine” on paper and still feel dead in the day to day. If you’re living in the same house but the air feels cold, the talks are short, trust is thin, and intimacy feels complicated, we want to give you real hope and real tools. We tell the truth about our own...
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Hypocrisy Is Keeping You Stuck (Here’s How to Break Free) | “God Wants The Real You”
Send us Fan Mail We define hypocrisy as stage acting and name how it keeps us bound when our image matters more than our integrity. We connect the cost to marriage, family, and spiritual witness, then walk through clear steps and prayers that help us live honest and free. • Defining hypocrisy as...
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One of The Biggest Relationship Killers: Blame Shifting
Send us Fan Mail We get real about how blame shifting turns a struggling marriage into a dead-end and why owning your part is the first move toward change. We connect Scripture, self-awareness, and practical habits so you can stop living as the victim in every story and start growing on purpose.…
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The Kind Of Love A Wife Deserves
Send us Fan Mail A lot of men were never taught how to be a husband. You can be loyal, hardworking, and faithful, yet still leave your wife feeling alone in the same house. We get honest about the gap between providing and loving, and we talk about why isolation is one of the fastest ways a man...
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Why Am I Still Single? | What If Waiting Is God's Protection
Send us Fan Mail “Why am I still single?” can feel like a question with teeth, especially when everyone else’s highlight reel is scrolling past your face. We get honest about the pressure, the loneliness, and the quiet fear that something must be wrong with you, then we confront the biggest lie...
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You Don’t Have To Settle For A Bad Sex Life | God's Design For Sex in Marriage
Send us Fan Mail We challenge the quiet norm of “sucky sex” in marriage and lay out why God designs sex for intimacy, connection, and real enjoyment without shame. We share our own healing journey from trauma, body insecurity, and bad beliefs to a healthier sex life built on safety…
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How To Get Promoted (What Bosses Look For)
Send us Fan Mail The promotion you want might be carrying more than you think. We get honest about what “next level” really means, because promotion is not only a raise or a new title, it is pressure, visibility, responsibility, and accountability. If you’ve ever watched someone move up faster…
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How Unresolved Offense Destroys Love
Send us Fan Mail People don’t wake up one morning and decide they don’t love their spouse. What we see far more often is something quieter and more dangerous: a hurt that never gets resolved, a story we keep replaying, and a wall that goes up brick by brick until the house feels cold. We’re…
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What To Do When People Don’t Like You
Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Doing Life with Ken & Tabatha, we talk about how to deal with rejection, criticism, and being misunderstood — especially when you’re trying to follow God and build something meaningful. If you’ve ever wondered: • Why don’t they like me? • Why do people talk…
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5 Reasons Christians Should Re-Think Alcohol
Send us Fan Mail What if the line between “okay” and “too far” isn’t a line worth walking? We open up about our 24-year sober journey and the moment a mentor reframed the question from “Is it allowed?” to “Is it wise for a king?” From there, the conversation turns honest and practical—how alcohol...
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Submission & Faithfulness: God’s Path to Promotion
Send us Fan Mail What if the real path to promotion looks nothing like hustle culture promises? We take on two charged words—submission and faithfulness—and show how they form a powerful, practical way of life that advances marriages, teams, and callings. This isn’t about losing your voice. It’s...
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7 Money Habits to End Marriage Stress
Send us Fan Mail Money pressure has a way of sneaking into a marriage and turning simple conversations into fights. We open up about our early years—over $100k in debt, sleepless nights, and two very different backgrounds—and share the seven habits that helped us replace anxiety with unity. This…
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The Danger of Casual Christianity
Send us Fan Mail Lukewarm faith feels easy—until it costs you power, joy, and purpose. We get honest about casual Christianity, why it’s so common, and how to move from a Sunday habit to a life that actually carries the presence of God. Ken shares his past as a “Christian atheist”—believing in…
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Stop Wasting Your 20’s | 5 Dating Rules We Wish We Knew
Send us Fan Mail Dating does not have to be confusing, exhausting, or expensive. We’re pulling back the curtain on five practical rules that protect your heart, save your time, and set you up for a marriage that can actually thrive. From defining non‑negotiables to reading red flags without...
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Quit Porn For Good! A Faith Based Plan
Send us Fan Mail 📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE! Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️ 👉 Order your copy here: https://www.amazon.com/Better-Marriage-Perfect-Imperfect-Couples/dp/B0GNDV9MTW…
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Don’t Settle For An “OK” Marriage
Send us Fan Mail Settling for “okay” feels safe, but it quietly shrinks your marriage. We dig into why cruise control robs connection and how a few intentional shifts can turn your relationship into a lifelong adventure. From writing a simple family mission to scheduling a 20-second hug, we share...
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Miracle Season: Creating An Atmosphere That Attracts God
Send us Fan Mail 📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE! Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️ 👉 Order your copy here: https://www.amazon.com/Better-Marriage-Perfect-Imperfect-Couples/dp/B0GNDV9MTW…
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10 Things You Must Know To See Lasting Change This Year
Send us Fan Mail Resolutions powered by adrenaline rarely survive February. We’re after something deeper: a year that actually changes because your spirit leads, your mind renews, and your habits align with what God already says about you. Together we unpack why identity comes before intensity…
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Why Fast? | Benefits of Fasting
Send us Fan Mail Ready to trade comfort for clarity? We’re kicking off the year with a 21-day journey that goes beyond skipping meals and straight into a deeper pursuit of God. Fasting without prayer is just a diet; fasting with prayer, scripture, and generosity becomes a spiritual reset that...
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Our Best Godly Wisdom
Send us Fan Mail Ready to stop making resolutions that fizzle and start setting goals that actually change your life? Ken and Tabatha dig into the difference between hype and habits, laying out a practical, faith-forward way to plan your year with clarity, courage, and consistency. We talk about...
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Our Best Sex & Intimacy Advice
Send us Fan Mail 📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE! Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️ 👉 Order your copy here: https://www.amazon.com/Better-Marriage-Perfect-Imperfect-Couples/dp/B0GNDV9MTW…
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Our Best Marriage Advice
Send us Fan Mail What if the gap between tension and tenderness is smaller than you think? We revisit a candid conversation about the real work of marriage—how to share the load at home, protect each other’s energy, and bring intimacy back from the brink without losing yourself in the process. No...
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How We Saved Our Marriage + Live Q&A With Real Couples
Send us Fan Mail 📖 ORDER BETTER MARRIAGE! Ready to build a stronger, healthier marriage? Order our new book, Better Marriage: Perfect Love for Imperfect Couples, by Ken & Tabatha Claytor. ❤️ 👉 Order your copy here: https://www.amazon.com/Better-Marriage-Perfect-Imperfect-Couples/dp/B0GNDV9MTW…
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The #1 Mistake Singles Make in Choosing a Partner
Send us Fan Mail Dating with wisdom starts by turning your list into a mirror. We talk candidly about why so many singles overvalue appearance and chemistry, then feel blindsided after the wedding when character gaps show up at full volume. Attraction matters, but it won’t hold a marriage…
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3 Things to Do When You Feel Far From God
Send us Fan Mail When your heart whispers “God feels far,” what if the real invitation is to come closer? We open up about seasons of pain, busyness, and spiritual immaturity and show how a felt distance doesn’t mean God has moved. From battling cancer to navigating marriage stress, we trace the...
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5 Ways to Hear God’s Voice Clearly in Your Life
Send us Fan Mail What if hearing God was less about chasing a moment and more about walking in a steady conversation? We unpack five reliable ways to discern God’s voice—Scripture, the Spirit’s inner witness, wise community, peace that umpires your choices, and the clarity of open-and-closed...
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Butterfly Love From Infatuation to Real Love
Send us Fan Mail Butterflies don’t build marriages—choices do. We open up about the rush of infatuation, the friction of the fight for power, and the quiet strength of mature love, weaving our 26-year story through the science, the pitfalls, and the simple practices that help couples grow. You’ll...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Hey, what’s up fam. We’re Ken and Tabatha, and we’re so glad you found our YouTube page. We always pray, “God, let the people who need this channel find this channel.” So, if you’re here, you’re an answer to prayer.
We have one major goal. We want to help you grow in love with God and grow in love with the people God has placed in your life. The way we do that is simple. We take what we’ve learned and we share it. We’ve been married for 26 years, and we always jokingly say it’s been the best 24 years of our lives. The first two years were pretty bad. We had all the classic problems: silent treatments, weaponized sex, a lack of communication skills, financial pressures, and more. But we learned tools and principles from God’s Word that helped us turn our marriage around. Now we’re happy to say we’re best friends.
That’s why people ask us all the time, “Do you have a special anointing for marriage?” And our answer is always the same. No, we just have tools.
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Ken Claytor and Tabatha Claytor
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Hey, what’s up fam. We’re Ken and Tabatha, and we’re so glad you found our YouTube page. We always pray, “God, let the people who need this channel find this channel.” So, if you’re here, you’re an answer to prayer. We have one major goal. We want to help you grow in love with God and grow in love...
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