PARENTS: What if THIS Backfires?!

Does your teen shut down when you encourage them? Avoid toxic positivity and find the ‘sweet spot’ of support. Sooo, your amazing teen athlete or performer just had an "Oops!" They bombed an audition, missed the game-winning shot, or flubbed a major performance. Of course you want to lift them up, but how? If you get this wrong, you risk losing credibility—or worse, making them feel dismissed. So, let's get it right. Join us as we dive head first into how leaving Parent Mode and entering Coach Mode can help you deliver the neutral encouragement that is genuine and steers clear of toxic positivity. As the kids like to say, "let's get real!" Get to Your Stuff 00:00 Teaser: What If This Backfires? 02:26 The Risks of Encouragement: Pressure and Toxic Positivity 06:57 Navigating Emotions: Parent Mode to Coach Mode 10:16 Real-Life Scenarios: The "Failure" 14:30 Zip it and Listen: Processing Emotions Together 22:02 Creation Corner: The QOC Tool and a Parent Invitation The Gold Nuggets Encouragement can create unnecessary pressure on your teen athlete/performer. Toxic positivity can destroy credibility. Emotions should be viewed as neutral, not positive or negative. Assuming you know how they feel after "failure" can be a losing game! Listening is more effective than giving advice. Open communication fosters emotional processing. Tools like the QOC can transform your parent/teen relationship. Hey there Very Important Parents! We are striving to create a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers that is available for watching and listening on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify. New episodes drop every MONDAY. We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our Podcast's YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast! We'd be even more grateful (if that's possible) if you would like, review, or comment on any of the platforms where you find us. This helps us to become more visible to other Most Valuable Parents--thank you! And...if you really love the show, we would be so grateful if you would SHARE an episode or two with another parent of a teen athlete or performer. And as always, moms and dads, we're cheering you on as you Stop Parenting & Start Coaching! And, there’s more–there always isn't there?! If you’ve read this far you probably are totally nerdy and giddy about helping teen athletes and performers to excel. Well, we do too and that’s why we’re creating parent, uh coaching, tools/courses/coaching at createtransformbecome.com. Check it out where you can pick up our 100% Free QOC Tool for parents (The Question Only Conversation!). -Nate & Steve