People Are Burned Out On Dating Chasing To Chosen From Kelsey Gaudreault

53% of singles report dating burnout, and 32% have deleted the apps entirely, but the women most affected aren't passive or disengaged. They're the ones doing everything: initiating, overgiving, showing up, and still watching him pull away. Kelsey Gaudreault's debut book From Chasing to Chosen (launching April 25, 2026) challenges the premise of nearly every dating framework on the market. After coaching 700+ high-achieving women, Gaudreault argues that chasing isn't about who texts first. It's an unconscious wound rooted in the belief that love must be earned.Here are a few angles that may resonate with your readers:Overgiving is manipulation in disguise - because giving from a place of unworthiness ("if I do enough, will you love me?") is a transaction, not intimacy. This conversation is completely absent from mainstream dating advice.The "black cat" backlash - acting unbothered isn't empowerment, it's the same wound with a different name. Women who've traded overgiving for hyper-independence are still performing — just differently.Why he pulls away (and it has nothing to do with him) - the unconscious mirroring pattern that sends men running before a woman even knows she's doing it.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/arroe-collins-like-it-s-live--4113802/support.