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Jul 25, 2026 54 min

People Pleasing vs. Pleasing People

from The Paradigm Shifts Podcast Network Hosted by Kaila New York

Kaila’s Keys: You are here too. Class Notes: There is a difference between being a people pleaser and genuinely enjoying pleasing the people you love. People pleasing requires you to abandon yourself. You say yes when you want to say no. You give more than you can afford to give. You keep pouring into people who do not reciprocate, acknowledge you or even consider what you need. Pleasing people comes from choice. You can love, support, serve and make someone happy without diminishing yourself in the process. You give from the overflow, not from the portion you need to survive. The goal is not to become cold, detached or indifferent. The goal is balance. Turn your spiritual faucet up for the people who appreciate, respect and replenish you. Turn it down, or completely off, when people repeatedly take without completing the circuit. Helping others should never require you to disappear. What May Need to Be Cleared: Overgiver Loop Energetic Bleed Repeating Pattern Hook Fix It All Syndrome Suppression Block Control Block System Block #PeoplePleasing #StopPeoplePleasing #HealthyBoundaries #SelfWorth #Reciprocity #Overgiver #GiversAndHealers #EnergyProtection #SpiritualBoundaries #EmotionalHealing #RelationshipAdvice #KailaNewYork

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