Polycules, Religious Deconstruction, and California Fries with Sylvie Savage

This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Sylvie Savage — trans woman, TikTok creator, relationship anarchist, and the person who will absolutely make you question every social construct you've ever accepted without thinking about it.Sylvie's story is not a straight line. It moves through Bible college, religious deconstruction, a marriage, three kids, a miscarriage, a bipolar diagnosis, leaving the church, realizing she was trans, and somehow landing in one of the most intentional, loving, and beautifully complicated relationship structures you'll hear described on this podcast. And she tells all of it with the kind of humor and clarity that makes you want to take notes and laugh at the same time.Together, Siren, Wendy, and Sylvie get into relationship anarchy and what it actually means, polyamory and how Wendy is very seriously considering canoodling in the polycule, what it looks like to raise kids inside a poly pan trans household, the difference between stereotypes and statistics, queer intentionality in relationships, and why being demi doesn't mean you're out of the running for any of this.Also: the AI masc lesbian trend, trans women's relationship with their bodies, a passionate discourse about Gia, Wendy being canonically 81 years old, and California fries as a life philosophy.If you've ever had to dismantle everything you were taught just to figure out who you actually are — this one is for you.Support the chaos and get access to bonus content, behind the scenes moments, and the Tongue First After Hours community over on Patreon. The link is in the show notes.Find Sylvie Savage on TikTok at @sylvie.enchantress.Follow the chaos on TikTok: @Sirenegade_440 @Wendy6181981New episodes every Monday.Until next time — stay curious, stay queer, and don't forget to lick responsibly.