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Tongue First
by Siren and Wendy
Two sapphic voices. One mic. And the kind of questions people don’t always say out loud. Welcome to Tongue First — a queer, sapphic podcast where curiosity gets a little closer… and conversations go a little deeper. Hosted by Siren — trans woman, poet, and emotional-support bottom — and Wendy — cis lesbian baddie with confidence, chaos, and zero interest in sugarcoating anything — this is what happens when you put two very different energies in the same space… and unleash them. Season 1 is a shift. Less performance. More presence. Still playful, still a little unhinged — but now we mean it. Fully unscripted and always honest, these are real conversations about identity, relationships, sex, and the moments that hit harder than expected — with special guests joining every other episode to bring new perspectives, stories, and a little extra chaos into the mix. From messy connections and late realizations to desire, growth, a
Episodes
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"Are You Gay?", Dash Cam Frat Boys, and the Matilda Cake with Miranda Batterson
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Miranda Batterson: an Uber driver in Florida, a mom to a nine-year-old gamer named Cooper, and one of the TikTok community friends who became a real-life friend. If the name sounds familiar, Miranda is married to Melissa Batterson, better known…
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White-Picket-Fence Guilt, Free Mom Hugs, and the Nudist's Goat Farm with Melissa Batterson
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Melissa Batterson, better known as Mother Clucker. She's a chicken tender, a mom of three, a work-at-home healthcare worker, and a member of the TikTok community who has slowly become a real-life friend. Melissa tells her coming out story: a...
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Blood of the Coven, Tankless Water Heaters, and Reclaiming Her Power with Dalyss Saari
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Dalyss Saari — artist, mother, and American expat currently living in Birmingham, England, six months into a life she built almost entirely on her own terms. Dalyss opens up about growing up as one of twelve kids and never quite getting the...
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Meeting the Wifey, Twenty Years of Silence, and Us Against the Problem with Jessica Reeves
This week on Tongue First, Siren finally gets to interview the woman at the center of so many of this show's stories — Wendy's wife, Jessica Reeves. Jess opens up about a childhood marked by abuse that started at age three and was met with silence from nearly everyone who should have protected…
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The Kentucky Derby, the Book Club Alibi, and Choosing Each Other with Bo and Squeezy
This week on Tongue First, Wendy flips the format and sit down to interview Bo-Dara and Squeezy — the two women you've heard reading intros, outros, and ad reads for months, and the two people who make up the rest of Siren's throuple. Squeezy takes us back to 2013, to a panic attack in the corner...
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Married on a Tuesday, Marriage Equality, and the Fight That Isn't Over
This week on Tongue First, it's just Siren and Wendy — and Wendy has news. She and Jess got married. On a Tuesday. Less than 72 hours before this recording. Wendy opens up about what made this moment feel different from every relationship before it — real accountability, real reassurance, and the...
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Dungeons and Dragons, Assless Chaps, and Accidental Pride with Mitch Grzegorek
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Mitch Grzegorek — Siren's friend of nearly twenty years, met through Xbox Live back in the Halo days, and officially the first straight man to ever guest on this podcast. Mitch and Siren's friendship started as usernames and headsets — Cows of...
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EMDR, Ballet, and Rear Naked Choke-Holds with Lisa Smith
This week on Tongue First, Siren is joined by two guests: Valisara — Siren's right hand and the person behind the scenes making this whole thing run — stepping into the co-host chair while Wendy recovers from being sick, and Lisa Smith, a licensed therapist who specializes in EMDR and works…
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Circling the Block, Consensual Non-Consent, and New Relationship Energy with Jo Del Carmen
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome back Jo Del Carmen — our very first return guest, and currently the most listened to episode in the show's history. Jo circled the block on their own words to be here, and it turns out we all had more to say. This episode opens with a big one:...
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Prime Rib, Choosing Peace, and Setting Boundaries with Geli Jimenez
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Geli Jimenez — Wendy's close friend, former supervisor, and someone who has lived through more than most people could carry, only to come out the other side kind, grounded, and genuinely at peace. Geli grew up Hispanic and deeply Catholic…
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AOL Searches, Shadow Work, and Emotional Support Chopsticks with Daisy Barton
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Daisy Barton — trans woman, TikTok creator, full time Uber driver, and one of the most quietly resilient people this show has had the privilege of talking to. Daisy knew she was a girl since she was five years old, growing up in a conservative...
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Boxed Wine, Debriefs, and the Listener Mailbag
This week on Tongue First, it's just Siren and Wendy — boxed wine, sparkling water, chewed ice, and no guest. After ten episodes of incredible guests, this one is a deep exhale. They pour a drink and debrief the last couple of weeks — the drama, the snakes in the grass, what emotional…
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Gay Pancakes, Husbands, and Thirty Nine Raccoons with Adam & Topher
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Adam and Topher — husbands, TikTok creators, and the two sweet little baby angels behind some of the most joyful corners of the internet, including a coffee brand with attitude and a nightly raccoon dinner party that has to be seen to be…
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Murder Musicals, Iced Vanilla Berry, and Anxious Attachment with Miss Magali
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Miss Magali — queer, mixed, musical theater performer, TikTok yapper, and full time gaming streamer who went live to a community of seven people on March 5th and never looked back. Magali came into Siren's life during one of the hardest moments…
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Put Your Whole Mouth On It - Rebroadcast
Before season one, before the guests, before the show notes and the Patreon and the weekly production schedule — there was this. This week Tongue First is taking a breath and going back to where it all started. Put Your Whole Mouth On It is the very first episode Siren and Wendy ever recorded…
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Gay God, Childhood Trauma, and Warm Jello with Matthew Lush
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Matthew Lush — aka Gay God — one of the original LGBTQ+ internet personalities, a trailblazer who was turning webcams on in his bedroom and figuring it out in real time before anyone had a name for what he was doing. Matthew has been a presence…
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Polycules, Religious Deconstruction, and California Fries with Sylvie Savage
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Sylvie Savage — trans woman, TikTok creator, relationship anarchist, and the person who will absolutely make you question every social construct you've ever accepted without thinking about it. Sylvie's story is not a straight line. It moves…
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Sultry Stories, Sweat, and Sapphic Snacks with Jo Del Carmen
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy welcome Jo Del Carmen — sapphic short story author, TikTok storyteller, and the author behind Women in Papercuts — a collection of true sapphic experiences written with the kind of tension that makes you want to turn down the brightness, light a candle,...
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Phone Scams, Love Languages, and Spicy Group Chats
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy are back for a solo episode that somehow covers everything from financial fraud to sapphic softness — with a spicy group chat in the middle holding it all together. Wendy kicks things off with a week from hell: a CheapOAir booking disaster and a phone...
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Welcome to Tongue First: After Hours - Patreon Launch
This one is a little different. Siren and Wendy are taking a quick detour from the regular episode format to talk directly to the community about something they've been building behind the scenes — Tongue First: After Hours, the official Tongue First Patreon page, is live. In this bonus episode...
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Rainbow Kids, Survival, and Emotional Support Tweezers
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy are joined by Meggers for one of the most emotionally grounded — and unexpectedly chaotic — conversations of the season so far. Together, they talk about parenting queer kids, chosen family, queer safety, internet friendships becoming real life support...
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Parasocial Panic, Polyamory, and Power Rangers
This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy dive into the beautifully weird world of queer community, TikTok Live, parasocial relationships, polyamory, religious trauma, and creator burnout. What starts with Power Rangers, Gemini chaos, and straight men in livestream chats turns into a deeper...
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Powdered Sugar, Gay Bars, and Jared from the Internet
Episode 2: Powdered Sugar, Gay Bars, and Jared from the Internet This week, Siren and Wendy are joined by everyone’s favorite sweet little baby angel, Jared from the Internet, for an episode that somehow spirals from Sniffies and gay bars into queer identity, creator burnout, parasocial...
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Eye Contact, Making Out, and Things That Escalate Quickly
What starts with a look doesn’t always stay that simple. In the Season 1 premiere of Tongue First, Siren and Wendy are back — this time off TikTok Live and fully in their element — catching up on everything that’s happened since Season 0. And yeah… things escalate quickly. From a chaotic,...
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Gender Awakenings, Closet Cracks & Queer Epiphanies
Siren and Wendy are back, diving Tongue First into the tender, chaotic, and life-shifting moments that shape who we are — from those first little closet cracks to the full-body ohhh moments of queer epiphany. This episode gets beautifully real about gender, identity, desire, and the messy magic…
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Red Flags, Butt Stuff, and Break-ups
🎙️ Tongue First — Episode 2: “Red Flags, Butt Stuff, and Break-ups” Tagline: The queer curiosity podcast with bite. Episode Description: Siren and Wendy are back, serving up another round of sapphic chaos, laughter, and way-too-honest conversation. In this episode, they dive Tongue First into...
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Put your whole mouth on it.
🎙️ Tongue First — Episode 1: “Put Your Whole Mouth On It” Tagline: The queer curiosity podcast with bite. Episode Description: Welcome to the debut episode of Tongue First! Hosts Aubrey Jones aka Siren and Wendy Reeves kick things off by introducing themselves, their chaotic chemistry, and the...
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Tongue First - Trailer - Welcome to the Chaos!
🎙️ Tongue First — Official Trailer hosted by Aubrey Jones & Wendy Reeves 💋 Episode Description Welcome to Tongue First, the podcast where curiosity is sexy — and consent is hotter. In this teaser, meet your hosts Aubrey (Siren) Jones and Wendy Reeves as they introduce what Tongue First is all...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Two sapphic voices. One mic. And the kind of questions people don’t always say out loud.
Welcome to Tongue First — a queer, sapphic podcast where curiosity gets a little closer… and conversations go a little deeper.
Hosted by Siren — trans woman, poet, and emotional-support bottom — and Wendy — cis lesbian baddie with confidence, chaos, and zero interest in sugarcoating anything — this is what happens when you put two very different energies in the same space… and unleash them.
Season 1 is a shift.
Less performance. More presence. Still playful, still a little unhinged — but now we mean it.
Fully unscripted and always honest, these are real conversations about identity, relationships, sex, and the moments that hit harder than expected — with special guests joining every other episode to bring new perspectives, stories, and a little extra chaos into the mix.
From messy connections and late realizations to desire, growth, a
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What is Tongue First about?
Two sapphic voices. One mic. And the kind of questions people don’t always say out loud. Welcome to Tongue First — a queer, sapphic podcast where curiosity gets a little closer… and conversations go a little deeper. Hosted by Siren — trans woman, poet, and emotional-support bottom — and Wendy — cis...
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Tongue First is created and hosted by Siren and Wendy.
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