Practical Ways to Respect Your Husband

"My question is, in simple form: how do I respect my husband? But in more words. Practically, it seems I don't even know when I am disrespecting my husband. I've seen that it's mostly at times when I want my way, but these times also seem to be when I believe my husband is in the wrong or in error. So what does respect look like practically in the moment when I don't even realize I'm being disrespectful? I seem to be accused of being disrespectful and then surprised by the accusation, or I have some defense that what was being said or suggested or done by my husband was wrong. In other words, justified."