Press the Button: Our Raw, Real Conversation About Prostate Massage

What starts as a listener confession about prostate massage turns into the most honest, vulnerable, and surprisingly hilarious conversation Adam and Pris have ever had on mic — completely unscripted, completely real. About This Episode A brave listener wrote into the Beyond Monogamy confessional to share what prostate massage actually feels like — and his words were hard to ignore: "earth-shaking," a "full-body orgasm," with increased intensity, duration, and volume of ejaculate. He said he was completely incapacitated afterward. That letter opened a door neither Adam nor Pris expected to walk through on this quickie. Adam admits he has never had prostate play done — and he explains exactly why: a past experience where it happened without his consent left him with a lasting emotional association he has carried for years. Pris, meanwhile, reveals she has actually done it before (to her first husband, no less 👀). Together, they work through the anatomy, the stigma, toxic masculinity, vulnerability, and the very real question of whether this is something they will explore together. Spoiler: Adam Googled "what is a prostate" in real time on mic. You're going to want to hear this one. Topics Covered What the prostate is and what it actually does The P-spot — why it's called the "male G-spot" and how stimulation works Internal vs. external stimulation (the taint is a real starting point) Adam's past experience and why consent is the real issue Toxic masculinity and the "I ain't gay" barrier so many men face Whether prostate play should be a lifestyle boundary or an open one A practical beginner's guide for curious couples Practical Guide: Starting the Conversation Even if you're brand new to this topic, here's where Adam and Pris landed with their practical takeaways: Have the conversation first — no surprises, ever. Both partners need to be on the same page before anything happens. Don't cause trauma where there doesn't need to be any. Start slow and stay external. External pressure on the perineum (the area between the scrotum and anus, sometimes called the taint) is a low-commitment entry point. It gives you a sense of whether there's something worth exploring further — without diving all the way in. If going internal: hygiene and preparation matter. Short nails, gloves if preferred, and lube — always lube. Always. Check in throughout. Communication during is just as important as communication before. This should feel like an upgrade to intimacy, not something anyone is white-knuckling through. If it's not working, you stop. Full stop. And if it's incredible? Talk about that too — then hit up the Beyond Monogamy confessional and let us know how it went. 🎉 This Episode Is Brought To You By FIRM TECH Speaking of exploring new things — our friends at FIRM TECH make it easy to take that first curious step. Whether you're brand new to intimacy products or looking to level up, they've got everything you need. Use code BEYOMONO at checkout and get 15% off your entire order! 🔗 Shop here: FirmTech - SHOP HERE! 🏷️ Code: BEYOMONO 💸 Saves you: 15% off Send Us Your Confessional This episode literally started because one listener had the guts to write in. If something in this episode hit home, or if you have your own story to share, drop it in our 100% anonymous confessional at www.beyond-monogamy.com. Zero judgment. You just might end up on a future quickie of your own. Find Everything Beyond Monogamy 🌐 Website, full episodes, quickies, merch, blog, guest lineup & confessional: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Live Streaming: Every Thursday on fullswapradio.com — 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central 🎟️ Live Event: Adam & Pris LIVE at Club Eden in San Antonio — June 20th. Membership required. Details at beyond-monogamy.com under the Events tab. If this episode made you think, laugh, or squirm just a little — that means it worked. Hit follow, leave us a five-star review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Those 30 seconds cost you nothing and mean everything to us. We'll see you next week. 💜