EPISODE · Dec 26, 2024 · 17 MIN
Q&A: My 5-year-old says she doesn't want a sibling but I want to have another baby. What do I say?
from Securely Attached · host Dr. Sarah Bren
Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg, Dr. Emily Upshur, and I talk about... - Translating the question: I don't want a sibling may actually just mean, "I miss you." - Zooming back to assess the environmental factors that may be taxing your child, especially when there are a lot of transitions and changes going on. - How to change the narrative in your young child's mind so they don't associate losing quality time with Mommy and Daddy to having more siblings. - When to simply validate your child's feelings and when to know if it's time to try to make some changes. - A script of exactly what you can say to help your child feel more contained and regulated in these moments. - Why helping your child feel seen in the moment can foster their secure attachment, which may end up indirectly solving the problems you're experiencing. ADDITIONAL PODCAST EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE: 🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about secure attachment and growth mindset with Melinda Wenner Moyer 🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about how to work with the brain rather than fight against with Dr. Dan Siegel 🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about whether it's bad to "baby" the baby WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU: Go to https://drsarahbren.com/question to send us a question or a topic you want to hear us answer on Securely Attached - Beyond the Sessions!
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Q&A: My 5-year-old says she doesn't want a sibling but I want to have another baby. What do I say?
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