一期一会EP9｜女孩们那些妈妈没跟我们讲过的事「上」：事业 & 感情 feat. Mia

五六年前，我们因为当时的男友而相识，那时的我们或许都还困在各自的人生课题里翻滚，甚至没有机会好好坐下来交流。五年过去，那些曾经的伴侣已不在我们的人生序列中，但我们却意外地重新建立了连接。这次的对话会分成上下集，在上集中，我们聊到了建立事业和边界感还有感情观念。我们聊到了焦虑，也聊到建立边界感。我们更聊到了那些传统教育缺失的课题，如何体面地分手、如何拒绝无意义的包容，以及为什么在感情里三观与成长速度的匹配很重要。下集预告：我们将在下周四继续探讨女孩们那些关于性格打开，友情和原生家庭的成长体悟 🤍本集重点🤍 01:53 回忆五年前因前任相识的经历，探讨两人多年后重逢的新印象与变化 03:33 复盘二十出头时的迷茫期，以及 2020 年密集经历的人生巨变 05:04 深度解剖现代焦虑 08:57 讨论人生的优先级排序，以及如何平衡事业追求与家庭沟通 12:44 职业转型故事 18:39 转变目标导向思维，学会享受人生这个巨大游乐场的探索过程 21:11 拆解父母的感情建议从防御性警惕到理解爱意是流动的 24:53 亲密关系中的成长学习平等沟通、拒绝回避冲突以及对身体诚实 36:33 建立边界感的过程意识到无限的包容并不能换来尊重 46:48 从过度利他转向合理的利己，学会建立心理支柱并相信直觉 53:18 重新定义“门当户对”：核心在于价值观、原生家庭三观及共同成长的愿望一期一会 Here and Now Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/4rcBqfr Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0t9sdRyUNslxdLN9nTlRWT?si=EnWuMwSISW2DRevuFEIm7A 小宇宙：https://www.xiaoyuzhoufm.com/podcast/693589f6af43bab232f34bc1 Instagram：@一期一会 Here and Now 小红书：一期一会 Here and Now

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