Question 58: HOW CAN WE OVERCOME A STUBBORN BAD HABIT OR NEGATIVE TRAIT?

Answer: We might struggle with impulsiveness, arrogance, laziness, excessive talking, avoiding responsibilities, selfishness, or gossiping. The list of human vices is extensive, and these traits collectively create our complex and often challenging world.When we recognize a negative trait in ourselves, we must understand that it's deeply ingrained and difficult to eradicate alone. Therefore, we should sincerely pray to the Buddha, acknowledging our faults and seeking merit to help overcome these negative tendencies. Consistent practice and sincere repentance over time will gradually help eliminate these harmful habits.To help others overcome their negative traits, we can encourage them to follow a similar approach: pray to the Buddha, acknowledge their faults, and seek the Buddha's guidance in overcoming them.