QUICKIE: Lifestyle 101 Series - Having The "Lifestyle" Talk With Your Partner

Review, Connect & Join Our Community 👉 Leave us a review on our website 👉 Review us on Apple Podcasts 👉 Review us on Spotify 👉 Join our Reddit community 👉 Join our Discord community 👉 Sign up for SDC.com with our link (Promo code: 38236) Episode Summary – QUICKIE: Having The Talk Starting the journey into ethical non-monogamy isn't about parties or dating apps—it begins with a single conversation: how do you even bring this up with your partner? In this Lifestyle 101 Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get raw, funny, and brutally honest about what that first talk looked like for them (spoiler: it wasn't perfect) and what they've learned along the way. They share: Timing matters – don't drop the "lifestyle bomb" in the middle of a fight or after a few too many drinks. The preamble is everything – set the stage gently, ask if your partner is in a good headspace, and be ready for big feelings. Insecurities are normal – both men and women may wonder, "Am I not enough?" and that's okay. Reassurance isn't optional – words of affirmation, consistent support, and clear communication keep your foundation solid. Rules and boundaries – from safe words to texting check-ins, clear agreements protect both your relationship and your fun. Consent is sexy – not just with play partners, but between you and your spouse, every step of the way. Adam & Pris keep it 100% real about jealousy, insecurities, ultimatums, and the mistakes they made as newbies—and they drop practical advice for how couples can avoid the crash-and-burn moments while setting themselves up for success. At the end of the day, "having the talk" isn't a one-time thing. It's a conversation that will keep evolving with your relationship, and the key is staying honest, open, and connected. Show Notes Episode Title: QUICKIE – Having The Talk: Lifestyle 101 with Adam & Pris Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris In this episode you'll learn: Why timing and setting are critical when you bring up non-monogamy. How to use a preamble to ease your partner into sensitive conversations. The role of reassurance and emotional safety in keeping your relationship strong. Why rules, boundaries, and safe words matter for beginners. How alcohol and ultimatums can derail healthy conversations. The truth about consent—between partners and with others. Links & Community: Leave us a review on our website Apple Podcasts reviews Spotify reviews Reddit community Discord community SDC promo link (Promo code: 38236) Also streaming on: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, YouTube, and every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.