Raising Boys in the Modern World: Let’s Be Honest About What’s Not Working

Welcome back to the ACT OUT podcast! In this episode, host Adam Tomlin sits down with Shaun Dawson, host of the Raising Men podcast, for a powerful and honest conversation about identity, healing, and what it really means to navigate life as a modern man.What starts as a discussion around personal struggles quickly opens up into a deeper exploration of self-awareness, emotional growth, and the stories we tell ourselves. Adam and Shaun dig into how men often feel pressure to “have it all figured out,” and how that can lead to disconnection, avoidance, or staying stuck in patterns that no longer serve them. They explore the idea that we are not the stories we’ve been telling ourselves—and that real growth begins when we’re willing to question those narratives and take responsibility for how we show up.Listeners will hear an honest breakdown of what healing actually looks like—not as a straight line, but as a personal and often messy process. Adam and Shaun talk about emotional regulation, the importance of community, and why spaces like men’s groups and circles can play a critical role in helping men reconnect with themselves and others. They also dive into shifting from judgment to curiosity, breaking old patterns, and building a more intentional way of living.If you’ve ever felt stuck in your own patterns, struggled with identity, or wondered what it really takes to grow as a man in today’s world, this episode offers a grounded and relatable perspective on doing the work—and why it matters.Learn more about Shaun Dawson and the Raising Men podcast: https://raising.menTune in every Thursday for episodes that inspire, challenge, and entertain. Whether you’re here for laughs, lived wisdom, or action steps, the ACT OUT podcast is your space to rethink growth, embrace self-awareness, and act out your passions.Want to be a guest on the ACT OUT podcast? Send Adam Tomlin a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17697025629686282ce7409dcOther ways to follow and connect with the ACT OUT podcast:Learn more at:https://www.theactoutpodcast.com/Subscribe to the show on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@theACTOUTpodcastFollow the show on Instagram: @‌actoutpodcast & TikTok: @‌actoutpodcastCredits:Mural: Tara E. @‌taradiiiise and @‌tarayakisauce