Rebecca Minor: Becoming Ourselves, Affirming Others & Guiding Families with Pride

In this episode of Queer Talker, host Ben Cicchetti sits down with Rebecca Minor, gender specialist, author, educator, and clinician, to explore her powerful work supporting trans and gender-diverse youth on their journey of becoming—and helping their families affirm them every step of the way.Rebecca opens up about her own queer journey, growing up in creative spaces, navigating compulsory heterosexuality, and the moment she decided to publicly live her truth. She shares what inspired her to become a gender specialist, and how she uses “possibility modelling” to show young queer people that their futures can be bright, joyful, and expansive.They also unpack the disinformation crisis surrounding trans identities, the political weaponization of gender, and the misconceptions parents and the public still hold. Plus, Rebecca offers heartfelt advice for families, educators, and allies alike—and teases her upcoming book Raising Trans Kids: What to Expect When You Weren’t Expecting This.This episode is a must-listen for anyone passionate about affirming queer youth, breaking down harmful narratives, and building a world where everyone is free to live authentically.00:00 Understanding the Role of a Gender Specialist04:18 Exploring Personal Identity and Childhood Experiences07:22 The Impact of Representation in Media10:16 Authenticity and Professional Identity13:20 The Political Landscape of Gender Issues16:24 Misinformation and Disinformation in Gender Discussions19:31 Supporting Trans and Non-Binary Youth22:20 Advice for Parents of LGBTQ+ Children25:21 Navigating Family Dynamics and Acceptance28:18 Messages of Hope for LGBTQ+ Youth31:15 Rapid Fire Questions and Personal InsightsMore from Rebecca:Website: https://www.genderspecialist.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gender.specialist/ Preorder Raising Trans Kids (UK): https://tinyurl.com/yxdpjr2aPreorder Raising Trans Kids (US): https://tinyurl.com/32jxv5uy Follow Ben Cicchetti:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bencicchetti/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@BenCicchettiTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bencicchetti